Am I shallow?
So, I meet this guy and have been talking to him over the phone for a few now. We have a lot of interesting things to say during conversations. I hung out with him a few times and had a blast.
Here's the stuff I like about him: Tall (6'2), smart, fun, ambitious, tattooed, white, green eyes, irish/italian/german mixed, he's traveled extensively and therefore is definitely not a close minded simpleton, is a complete gentleman he doesnt let me open doors for myself, let s me order first, puts my needs before his, his friends are awesome and have pretty much adopted me (lol), he's a piercer and apprenticing to be a tattoo artist.
Here it comes. The BUT:
The biggest issue I have with him is the fact that he's fat. He isn't just like a solid thick dude, like he looks like he could be ready to hit the 300lb mark. I know your rolling your eyes at me now saying I'm not any better and shouldn't just shoot down a person based on that. I don't know if it's that aspect about him that makes me not see him as boyfriend material or what. Because we all know that I've never dated anyone that weighed more than 180lbs, yeah I like them tall and lanky. The only other thing that bothers me about him and its more something that could potentially be a problem if things got serious is that he's a LeVayan Satanist (which is atheistic and humanist in philosophy and it's followers do not actually believe in a literal God or Satan. To them, Satan is just a symbol of the carnal side of human nature, and they believe that Christianity has done more harm than good by trying to stifle our natural and normal instincts and punishing us for engaging in normal human behavior) and a member of the Church of Body Modification.
That makes me wonder just how much appearance really means to me.
Here's the stuff I like about him: Tall (6'2), smart, fun, ambitious, tattooed, white, green eyes, irish/italian/german mixed, he's traveled extensively and therefore is definitely not a close minded simpleton, is a complete gentleman he doesnt let me open doors for myself, let s me order first, puts my needs before his, his friends are awesome and have pretty much adopted me (lol), he's a piercer and apprenticing to be a tattoo artist.
Here it comes. The BUT:
The biggest issue I have with him is the fact that he's fat. He isn't just like a solid thick dude, like he looks like he could be ready to hit the 300lb mark. I know your rolling your eyes at me now saying I'm not any better and shouldn't just shoot down a person based on that. I don't know if it's that aspect about him that makes me not see him as boyfriend material or what. Because we all know that I've never dated anyone that weighed more than 180lbs, yeah I like them tall and lanky. The only other thing that bothers me about him and its more something that could potentially be a problem if things got serious is that he's a LeVayan Satanist (which is atheistic and humanist in philosophy and it's followers do not actually believe in a literal God or Satan. To them, Satan is just a symbol of the carnal side of human nature, and they believe that Christianity has done more harm than good by trying to stifle our natural and normal instincts and punishing us for engaging in normal human behavior) and a member of the Church of Body Modification.
That makes me wonder just how much appearance really means to me.