The Latest
I've actually been doing a lot of things other than working lately. I have been going on dates. This past week I had like 3 1/2 dates in one week.
First one
Sucked ass. It was probably the worst date I had ever been on. Plus the guy didn't even tip the waiter when we went out for lunch, how lame is that? Definitely not the way to impress a lady.. haha Not to mention the fact that he knew I was a waitress, I can't get over the lameness of it. When he asked for a second date, I told him I really don't know about that.
Second one
I actually went on a date with this guy to prove to myself that I really am not as racist as people make me out to be. It was okay, we have a lot in common and conversation was super easy. Well I'm totally not that racist and went on a few other dates with him and even tried to make out with him to further prove it to myself. Well pretty much, not attracted to him more than a friend. And I avoided him awhile after coming to that decision, cause who knows what he was thinking? lol
Third one
Conversation rocked! We went for dinner and then drinks after wards. He seems like a really cool guy. Tipped the waitress at dinner and the bartender for drinks. Totally impressed me considering that first date. We talked over drinks from roughly 8pm till nearly 1am and with no awkward moments. We talk all the time online and on the phone, tons of text messages. We have planned a second date and see where it will go from there. He's one of the first guys I've talked to that is older than me and I suppose that is a plus. Because he has his shit straight as oppossed to me..lol I'd like to see where me and him can take this thing and what it might develop into.
The 1/2 one
Well me and my friend from work have been hitting up the clubs in Lawton. Yeah, its lame but whatever. Anyway she started dating this guy and I happened to end up with his brother. It's not a pretty story and I'll spare the details. I've seen him a few more times and we get along well. And we talk endlessly and being with him is so damn comfortable. We snuggle all the time and make out and stuff. But he isn't into being in a relationship, mainly because he is just visiting his brother in Lawton till January because he is staying out of trouble. Then it's back to Maryland with him until he joins the army in June or something like that. He promised to hit me up as soon as he gets out of bootcamp.. so maybe there is long term potential. I don't know he is confusing though cause he seems to treat me more than just a friend, but we had the whole long discussion the other day. So I'll take this at face value and just enjoy him till January. Tonight I'm going with my friend again to the club and seeing him so I'm excited. I get someone to snuggle up and go to bed with tonight.
So anyway, why is it that the person that it's so damn easy to be with and comfortable and just feels natural. Doesn't want the same things that I want at this very moment. I always seem to like the guys that want nothing more than friends or friends with benefits. I'm trying not to complain and enjoy the time I do have with him. Maybe this is all just the need for women to classify things and relationships. Maybe I'm just jumping into things.. I do tend to just fall into relationships quickly, you know the whole whirlwind romance nonsense. Maybe I'm just getting old and I want to settle down and be lame like that. But what would be the fun in that? Where would you guys get awesome single girl stories from?!? lol
First one
Sucked ass. It was probably the worst date I had ever been on. Plus the guy didn't even tip the waiter when we went out for lunch, how lame is that? Definitely not the way to impress a lady.. haha Not to mention the fact that he knew I was a waitress, I can't get over the lameness of it. When he asked for a second date, I told him I really don't know about that.
Second one
I actually went on a date with this guy to prove to myself that I really am not as racist as people make me out to be. It was okay, we have a lot in common and conversation was super easy. Well I'm totally not that racist and went on a few other dates with him and even tried to make out with him to further prove it to myself. Well pretty much, not attracted to him more than a friend. And I avoided him awhile after coming to that decision, cause who knows what he was thinking? lol
Third one
Conversation rocked! We went for dinner and then drinks after wards. He seems like a really cool guy. Tipped the waitress at dinner and the bartender for drinks. Totally impressed me considering that first date. We talked over drinks from roughly 8pm till nearly 1am and with no awkward moments. We talk all the time online and on the phone, tons of text messages. We have planned a second date and see where it will go from there. He's one of the first guys I've talked to that is older than me and I suppose that is a plus. Because he has his shit straight as oppossed to me..lol I'd like to see where me and him can take this thing and what it might develop into.
The 1/2 one
Well me and my friend from work have been hitting up the clubs in Lawton. Yeah, its lame but whatever. Anyway she started dating this guy and I happened to end up with his brother. It's not a pretty story and I'll spare the details. I've seen him a few more times and we get along well. And we talk endlessly and being with him is so damn comfortable. We snuggle all the time and make out and stuff. But he isn't into being in a relationship, mainly because he is just visiting his brother in Lawton till January because he is staying out of trouble. Then it's back to Maryland with him until he joins the army in June or something like that. He promised to hit me up as soon as he gets out of bootcamp.. so maybe there is long term potential. I don't know he is confusing though cause he seems to treat me more than just a friend, but we had the whole long discussion the other day. So I'll take this at face value and just enjoy him till January. Tonight I'm going with my friend again to the club and seeing him so I'm excited. I get someone to snuggle up and go to bed with tonight.
So anyway, why is it that the person that it's so damn easy to be with and comfortable and just feels natural. Doesn't want the same things that I want at this very moment. I always seem to like the guys that want nothing more than friends or friends with benefits. I'm trying not to complain and enjoy the time I do have with him. Maybe this is all just the need for women to classify things and relationships. Maybe I'm just jumping into things.. I do tend to just fall into relationships quickly, you know the whole whirlwind romance nonsense. Maybe I'm just getting old and I want to settle down and be lame like that. But what would be the fun in that? Where would you guys get awesome single girl stories from?!? lol