Feb 23, 2008 21:39
As you all know working in a company throws you in with a lot of people, lately all credit to the kind of work I am doing I have to interact a lot with a bunch of guys, but the fun thing is I can use my intra chat.So yeah the number of people on my list has hit a record high score-most are limited to mot more than a few sentences, except, except one guy. All my fault finding with his work would resort in a very amusing reply with tongue sticking out icons or huge grins. It did make work that much more fun. Our chat rarely ended with mono sentences it became a regular tongue and cheek thing -of course not lasting more than a few sentences.Working with this guy actually turned out to be fun.I looked him up on our intra and found out that he was this chubby young white guy.
So we continued out chat, and then I started feeling this guilt, guilt for enjoying having a fun chat, and told my sis that while my other half was away- i was having fun conversations with a chubby white guy, even mentioned to this friend of mine that I was having a fun chat with a chubby white guy-she in turn told me that she usually had lots of chats with lots of chubby white guys.
And that I need not feel guilty for chatting with him.
Then we had to be working this weekend, and well I fault finded his work and he as usual ribbed me about it, and then we got starting, it being a weekend it got a little lengthier than normal, he started telling me that dating scene back where ever he was was radically and culturally different blah blah.. I was like uh ho -maybe I should tell him i am married. Then I sneaked in my brother-in-law in the conversation.That did not seem to put him off, later he asked me to guess his age-he told me he was rather young-guess what he is 23!!,. I told him he was a baby and had a hearty laugh.Gosh, what was I thinking?!! All this to ask you.Do you feel guilty for having fun with another person?. Well, I wasn't leading him on or anything-but according to my friend it shows I am alive and healthy.
Hope you people are having fun today?
white chubby guys,
realtionship