Screwed 8 ways from Tuesday
So this weekend started off good and then took a turn for the worse in a major way.
First Darrell arrives Friday night and all is off to a good start. He brings roses and the next day is planned. We make a bed on the floor* and have a good cuddle.
Then we wake up nice and early and head to the institute breakfast which is a delicious and pancake-y. By 9:15 we're on the road to Peers, Alberta to visit his parents. We arrive in Peers by 11:30 with no trouble at all and his mom makes us some delicious sandwhichs. Parents are well, and its still going great. That afternoon we started up the snowmobiles (with a little bit of difficulty) and raced around on the farm. I've never been so suited up but I was never cold. Snowmobiles were followed by dinner and fun chatting and even photo albums.
We headed home and crashed as soon as our heads hit the pillows of our make-shift bed.
The next day is church and relaxing although Darrell starts to get the flu. We nap and I make dinner and Char leaves for dinner at my Aunt Thelma's (I'm completely burnt out from the day before so I don't really feel like going. And Darrell isn't too interested either since my aunt's son, Levi, has repetitively told me to break up with Darrell after they met for all of 3 hours). So Darrell and I sit down for a movie and a cuddle and not 15 minutes into the movie does all hell break loose. Char comes home from my aunt's house and calls me into our room (literally she calls my cell from the home phone and tells me to come in). She is in tears because she apparently feels incredibly uncomfortable with Darrell staying in the house with me. She doesn't want boys staying in the house at all. That means that Adrean's boyfriend is not longer welcome overnight. And charlotte will have to stop her sleepovers too. We asked her previously if it bothered her but she assured us it was ok. Now she is afraid that something bad will happen etc, etc. Well ok that's fine, if you're uncomfortable in your own home then I can make that change. But I feel that I should be able to make my own decisions so if I stay with him somewhere that is more or less out of her jurisdicition. But then she tells me that not only is she uncomfortable but at my aunt's house she let the cat out of the bag (church folks aren't too excited about the whole boys staying over dealy). That my uncle and cousin (Levi) wanted to come over and kick Darrell out of our house and that she told them everything. Well I tell Char that I can have Darrell stay somewhere else, that's fine. Everything is fine but five minutes later my uncle and cousin are at the door to ream me out. Well this is not fine with me. I don't want to have them involved with this and I certainly don't want them rehash what charlotte and I just settled. Not only is my uncle my uncle but he's also my bishop at my church. However, he can't manage to seperate these two roles and be objective as a bishop. Well I get the third degree about boys at my house and apparently people have been telling him that I've been an attender of the bar scene (I really with these 'people' would talk to me about it because I'd like to know what they think they're accomplishing). I've been relegated to heathen and apparently I have no self control either because when I'm at the bar I can't say no to a drink and when I've got boys at my house sure enough I'm having sex all over the place (both which are untrue). I really have no patience for this and what's more I may have to go through it again tonight because my sister talked to my mom about whether boys were allowed in our house overnight.
Mostly Charlotte got all up in my business when I feel that at this point in my life I am aware of my choices and consequences and can decide accordingly. She also violated my trust by taking our dirty laundry to my aunt before she even mentioned that there was a problem to me. She also revealed that she intends to try to break Darrell and I up. She want to bribe someone to pose as someone that I cheated on Darrell with so Darrell breaks up with me. I highly doubt that I've ever been so angry and felt so betrayed.
And then she complained today about period cramps and I realized that I was just a victim of PMS. Unfortunately, I will have to do damage control with family and Darrell for the next long while.
*Charlotte and I share a room so it was weird for her to have Darrell and me in my bed. Which is fine by me but she also at this point has developed quite a bit of disliking towards him.
First Darrell arrives Friday night and all is off to a good start. He brings roses and the next day is planned. We make a bed on the floor* and have a good cuddle.
Then we wake up nice and early and head to the institute breakfast which is a delicious and pancake-y. By 9:15 we're on the road to Peers, Alberta to visit his parents. We arrive in Peers by 11:30 with no trouble at all and his mom makes us some delicious sandwhichs. Parents are well, and its still going great. That afternoon we started up the snowmobiles (with a little bit of difficulty) and raced around on the farm. I've never been so suited up but I was never cold. Snowmobiles were followed by dinner and fun chatting and even photo albums.
We headed home and crashed as soon as our heads hit the pillows of our make-shift bed.
The next day is church and relaxing although Darrell starts to get the flu. We nap and I make dinner and Char leaves for dinner at my Aunt Thelma's (I'm completely burnt out from the day before so I don't really feel like going. And Darrell isn't too interested either since my aunt's son, Levi, has repetitively told me to break up with Darrell after they met for all of 3 hours). So Darrell and I sit down for a movie and a cuddle and not 15 minutes into the movie does all hell break loose. Char comes home from my aunt's house and calls me into our room (literally she calls my cell from the home phone and tells me to come in). She is in tears because she apparently feels incredibly uncomfortable with Darrell staying in the house with me. She doesn't want boys staying in the house at all. That means that Adrean's boyfriend is not longer welcome overnight. And charlotte will have to stop her sleepovers too. We asked her previously if it bothered her but she assured us it was ok. Now she is afraid that something bad will happen etc, etc. Well ok that's fine, if you're uncomfortable in your own home then I can make that change. But I feel that I should be able to make my own decisions so if I stay with him somewhere that is more or less out of her jurisdicition. But then she tells me that not only is she uncomfortable but at my aunt's house she let the cat out of the bag (church folks aren't too excited about the whole boys staying over dealy). That my uncle and cousin (Levi) wanted to come over and kick Darrell out of our house and that she told them everything. Well I tell Char that I can have Darrell stay somewhere else, that's fine. Everything is fine but five minutes later my uncle and cousin are at the door to ream me out. Well this is not fine with me. I don't want to have them involved with this and I certainly don't want them rehash what charlotte and I just settled. Not only is my uncle my uncle but he's also my bishop at my church. However, he can't manage to seperate these two roles and be objective as a bishop. Well I get the third degree about boys at my house and apparently people have been telling him that I've been an attender of the bar scene (I really with these 'people' would talk to me about it because I'd like to know what they think they're accomplishing). I've been relegated to heathen and apparently I have no self control either because when I'm at the bar I can't say no to a drink and when I've got boys at my house sure enough I'm having sex all over the place (both which are untrue). I really have no patience for this and what's more I may have to go through it again tonight because my sister talked to my mom about whether boys were allowed in our house overnight.
Mostly Charlotte got all up in my business when I feel that at this point in my life I am aware of my choices and consequences and can decide accordingly. She also violated my trust by taking our dirty laundry to my aunt before she even mentioned that there was a problem to me. She also revealed that she intends to try to break Darrell and I up. She want to bribe someone to pose as someone that I cheated on Darrell with so Darrell breaks up with me. I highly doubt that I've ever been so angry and felt so betrayed.
And then she complained today about period cramps and I realized that I was just a victim of PMS. Unfortunately, I will have to do damage control with family and Darrell for the next long while.
*Charlotte and I share a room so it was weird for her to have Darrell and me in my bed. Which is fine by me but she also at this point has developed quite a bit of disliking towards him.