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Nov 22, 2004 12:12

OK so far. It sucks. There was a cast party on Sat. after Auntie Mame (a school play) and everyone got drunk and I was Tipsy, lol. Anyway All in all I missed my date that I had on Sunday because of it and now lol... i dunno it wasn't really a date either we were just going to hang out ( Read more... )

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jennblader November 22 2004, 23:11:29 UTC
Okay Timothy. I"ve let this go on far too long. If you refuse to listen to me, I will take this matter to your sister because what you're doing to yourself is unhealthy. Listen to me for a minute:

First, what you're feeling is not love, it's lust. You've "experienced" sex before so to speak, but I don't think you understand that it must be an action to which many feelings are involved. You should not sleep around and you need to have a stable partner if you choose to go through with this action.
Second, you refuse to believe that because you've gone through it once that you can help everyone. His situation is different from yours. He must deal with parents different from your sister and Tony. What you're really trying to do is force him into it.
Third, don't make someone come out because you want them. They need to do it of their own free will. Right now all you're concentrating on in sex. Sex is not love, it is an example and expression of love but you're mooting that. You've barely known this guy. You even go as far as to say "I shouldn't say anything because things can change rather quickly" or something to that effect. In order to love someone, you must first know them. Not only must you know them, you must understand how their mind owrks. You do not know this.

Now, damnit Tim, either quit making up stories or change this because it's not good for you and you're only making things harder for this guy. You're being irresponsible and juvenile. And what's worse, you know I'm right.

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