I will now accept a nice cold glass of accolade

May 22, 2008 22:00


We had a good trip to Milwaukee. It was a bit short, but good.

Marcia and I finally passed a major monument in our lives together. We graduated. M received her PhD, and I had the title of Master of the Arts conferred upon me. Before The graduation ceremony I was actually feeling fairly apathetic towards the whole affair. At some point I think I started to not care about whether or not I graduated. I mean, I have a wife and child to take care of. I am the main bread winner. This shining moment still doesn't outshine my responsibilities.

What I didn't realize was how much receiving a silly piece of parchment would actually mean. I was, and am, quite proud of myself. I worked hard, and it shows. It took me a little longer to finish than I wanted, but I also did it the right way and didn't compromise my family along the way.

I am extremely proud of M too. She worked her ass off to see her dissertation completed. When I watched her walk down the aisle during the commencement, with Dr. Block her committee chair, I was elated at watching her take the first step into her life's work.

When we came back to reality, a state of mind I like to call San Mateo, we realized that we had to get our acts together. Will has gotten increasingly faster as he has gotten older. I on the other hand have not. I started my fitness regime again. I want to be able to play ball with the kid and not get winded on my way to the door, so that means salads, light snacks, fresh fruits and veggies, aqua and exercise are my new best friends.

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