Rewriting history

[tikatu]

Have you ever had someone in your life who wants to rewrite their history? Instead of being seen as acting selfish, or vain, or jealous, or generally unhinged, they want you to edit things you have said to make them look good? To remove those times when they were selfish, or vain, or jealous, or whatever else they might have done?

I have.

Since 2006

Comments

[lillehafrue]

She is an idiot. And that's the nice word. Apparently this person has a very high opinion of herself if she's so concerned about a website that was taken down over five years ago. Get over yourself!!! People likely don't even remember it! She's the one who keeps dredging up the past.

As to her checking and pestering you through your websites, there's a word for that. It's called cyber-stalking. And there are legal ramifications for that. You asked her to stop contacting you and she refuses, using different emails to get around the blocked ones. Textbook stalking. I would log a complaint with her ISP provider and talk to local authorities. The penalties for cyber-stalking are swift and severe. At the very least she could find herself banned from the internet and fined. At worst, she could be looking at jail time. I hope she's aware of this as she continues to pester you.

I would otherwise ignore her unless she contacts you again. She is obviously self-centered and jealous of your sites and is choosing to act against you to make herself feel better. Wash your hands of this idiot. Don't waste another moment of your time with her.

[tikatu]

So far, so good. I haven't heard from her today. She does have impeccable timing though; in 2008, I was on vacation, this time, I had family in from out of state. Makes me wonder just who is on my live journal f-list. There are a few names that I don't know personally, but who could read my f-locked posts--and the posts in 2008 weren't public.

Hmm. Food for thought. (Either that, or it could be my own paranoia.)