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i hope some one can help me with this one.i am five and a half months pregnant.my next door neighbor was also five months prego's..she just lost hers (twin boys) and she made it a point to come over and tell me.i don't know why!!!she is a sweet girl. and we have only known each other about nine months now.and i feel horrid about it but all i seem to be able to do is sit here rubbing my own belly like some demented buddha and think thank god it was not me.i want to be sympathetic but i am not real sure how to go about it and not seem like i am pushing my own pregnancy up her nose...should i avoid her or should i just pretend its no big deal?when it is.what help i am so confused.it happened last night and i felt horrid most of the night is it possible that two people that live this close to each other can have a link between their unborn babies and not know it or was it all in my head.she was only due two weeks after i am.if you have any ideas or opinion on it please let me know .i could use the input.....