Jul 10, 2004 19:14
it disturbs me when ppl but all the blame of a failed relationship on the other person. one thing ive realised from my parents seperation and pending divorse is that the blame never lies with only one party. ill explain, when my mum first left i blamed her, it was all her fault, she caused the arguements, the problems everything that was wrong in their relationship. but as time has gone on since she left i have come to the conclusion that it wasnt just her. this has come after months of my dad being nothing but selfish, not keeping to his part of bargin. i can see now exactly why she left.
neway the point of me posting this, im sick of the bickering i all honesty i dont care what is the truth and what is lies i just care that my friends are getting hurt. most of us seem now to be caught up in an arguement that doesnt really invovle us, an arguement that is hurting everyone. i think you all know what im talking about.