Venting
I'm so fucking sick and tired of all this. Women are fucking Retarded... that's all there is to it. Oh and if you think this post is about you.... don't worry you're not alone.
I've been hearing this, and similar lines far too long. I'm fucking sick of it!
"I want a man exactly like you!" well fuck you too... I'm right here!! You want someone exactly like me... you just don't want me? Oh grow the fuck up!! I'm done with this bullshit!! All of it!
You find a guy who is everything you could ever want in a man... and you refuse to give him that chance because of any of the following reasons.
You like different sports teams. (Exception being the Rams, if one of you likes the rams you need to be removed from the Gene pool... the Rams SUCK!!!)
You like different sports.
One of you comes from a rich family the other a poor one.
One of you smokes, and the other doesn't.
You don't smoke the other's brand of cigarette.
You do smoke the other's brand of cigarette.
One of you drinks and the other doesn't.
You don't drink the same thing.
You do drink the same thing.
Their hair is too long.
Their hair is too short.
Their eyes are the wrong color.
You don't like the font on their IMs
One of you tried drugs and the other didn't.
One of you likes Country the other likes Heavy Metal
One of you likes meat the other is a vegitarian.
One of you likes the outdoors, the other the indoors.
Their not tan enough.
Their not pale enough.
They can't dance the way you like.
One of you can sing, and the other can't.
One of you likes Cartoons, the other the headline news.
Or worse yet, One of you likes DBZ, the other FMA. (Or other such comparison)
One of you likes Italian, the other likes chinese.
One of you likes dogs, the other likes cats.
One of you went to college the other didn't get the chance.
One of you has a large family, the other has none.
One of you has a bunch of friends, the other is very selective of their friends.
One of you wants kids, the other doesn't.
It's all COSMETIC BULLSHIT!!
What the fuck difference does it make?! Is any of that really important in the grand scheme of things? So you go with some ass whole who excites you... and then come back to this guy and cry your eyes out over how there are no nice guys left out there. Get a fucking clue.
I'm so sick of it, I'm so sick of the few niceguys I know and call friend, being treated like shit because of this, and yes me too!!
So your exciting guy can't be faithful to you... so he can't be there for you... so he's lied to you about everything important... so he's stuck where he's at and going nowhere in life. Atleast he's exciting to you right? Atleast you're not bored living the same old life, doing the same old things. Well who ever said nice guys weren't exciting? You just can't give them the chance to show you what they're capable of.
So for those that have given me those excuses... here's all I have to say to you.
I've been nice, I've been patient, I've offered the compromises... Fuck it!! I'm done trying to be what you expect me to be... only to get more demands.... If you really wanted me... the cosmetic bullshit wouldn't be a deal breaker... Fuck it. You'll give a chance to some fuck nut that calls you a monster for your religion, or a freak for being a vegitarian, or fucks your best friend behind your back, or Leaves you stranded in another state... I'm done, call someone else. I'm so fucking sick and tired of being the one to bail you out... only for you to put yourself right back in the same position all over again.
Try putting yourself in their position... how would you feel? How would you feel to be the one being rejected for the cosmetic bullshit? Put yourself in their shoes... I know atleast one of you is empathic... maybe you've just been blocking it out. Yeah I can stay your friend... I'll still be there when you need me... you don't have to tell me the answer... just ask yourself the question.
As of right now though... my previous offers of compromising my own dreams and desires to suit you... are gone! I am me, and I will be me... If you don't want me you don't want me, but don't cry to me next time you're disappointed in the guy you DO want... or think you want atleast.
Now you can get all pissy, and you can get all upset. How dare I write about you in my journal, how dare I point out what you've been doing sence highschool. You know what... Shove it. If you think this is about you, then take a long hard look at yourself. If you don't think this is about you... You probably fit the group this is about even more.
I've been hearing this, and similar lines far too long. I'm fucking sick of it!
"I want a man exactly like you!" well fuck you too... I'm right here!! You want someone exactly like me... you just don't want me? Oh grow the fuck up!! I'm done with this bullshit!! All of it!
You find a guy who is everything you could ever want in a man... and you refuse to give him that chance because of any of the following reasons.
You like different sports teams. (Exception being the Rams, if one of you likes the rams you need to be removed from the Gene pool... the Rams SUCK!!!)
You like different sports.
One of you comes from a rich family the other a poor one.
One of you smokes, and the other doesn't.
You don't smoke the other's brand of cigarette.
You do smoke the other's brand of cigarette.
One of you drinks and the other doesn't.
You don't drink the same thing.
You do drink the same thing.
Their hair is too long.
Their hair is too short.
Their eyes are the wrong color.
You don't like the font on their IMs
One of you tried drugs and the other didn't.
One of you likes Country the other likes Heavy Metal
One of you likes meat the other is a vegitarian.
One of you likes the outdoors, the other the indoors.
Their not tan enough.
Their not pale enough.
They can't dance the way you like.
One of you can sing, and the other can't.
One of you likes Cartoons, the other the headline news.
Or worse yet, One of you likes DBZ, the other FMA. (Or other such comparison)
One of you likes Italian, the other likes chinese.
One of you likes dogs, the other likes cats.
One of you went to college the other didn't get the chance.
One of you has a large family, the other has none.
One of you has a bunch of friends, the other is very selective of their friends.
One of you wants kids, the other doesn't.
It's all COSMETIC BULLSHIT!!
What the fuck difference does it make?! Is any of that really important in the grand scheme of things? So you go with some ass whole who excites you... and then come back to this guy and cry your eyes out over how there are no nice guys left out there. Get a fucking clue.
I'm so sick of it, I'm so sick of the few niceguys I know and call friend, being treated like shit because of this, and yes me too!!
So your exciting guy can't be faithful to you... so he can't be there for you... so he's lied to you about everything important... so he's stuck where he's at and going nowhere in life. Atleast he's exciting to you right? Atleast you're not bored living the same old life, doing the same old things. Well who ever said nice guys weren't exciting? You just can't give them the chance to show you what they're capable of.
So for those that have given me those excuses... here's all I have to say to you.
I've been nice, I've been patient, I've offered the compromises... Fuck it!! I'm done trying to be what you expect me to be... only to get more demands.... If you really wanted me... the cosmetic bullshit wouldn't be a deal breaker... Fuck it. You'll give a chance to some fuck nut that calls you a monster for your religion, or a freak for being a vegitarian, or fucks your best friend behind your back, or Leaves you stranded in another state... I'm done, call someone else. I'm so fucking sick and tired of being the one to bail you out... only for you to put yourself right back in the same position all over again.
Try putting yourself in their position... how would you feel? How would you feel to be the one being rejected for the cosmetic bullshit? Put yourself in their shoes... I know atleast one of you is empathic... maybe you've just been blocking it out. Yeah I can stay your friend... I'll still be there when you need me... you don't have to tell me the answer... just ask yourself the question.
As of right now though... my previous offers of compromising my own dreams and desires to suit you... are gone! I am me, and I will be me... If you don't want me you don't want me, but don't cry to me next time you're disappointed in the guy you DO want... or think you want atleast.
Now you can get all pissy, and you can get all upset. How dare I write about you in my journal, how dare I point out what you've been doing sence highschool. You know what... Shove it. If you think this is about you, then take a long hard look at yourself. If you don't think this is about you... You probably fit the group this is about even more.