i just want to get away from it all

May 09, 2005 09:39

I've never been a fan of drama, yet I always get wrapped up in it. But I am so sick and tired of being the "adult", and just letting you push my buttons. Next time you want to verbally attack me, I will step down to your level and be just as immature as you. I know I fucked up, but I take full responsibility for what happened and for a while, I ( Read more... )

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stay strong, sis gaiafox May 9 2005, 17:48:53 UTC
don't know what's going on with all this, but it sounds like you're dealing with someone who is upset at you, but trying not to be. the problem with that (and i speak form experience here) is that it's not a maintainable state of being. so, whatever the issue is that is upsetting will keep cropping up again and again- even though there might be periods of peace inbetween. don't fall to a childish level because of this. just see it for what it is. maybe even try to talk to the other person about it. but don't let them snap and start being obnoxious again. reward that behavior with your absence- just refuse to be around the person who is treating you that way. it's not easy, but it's probably the best strategy. you and whoever this is about need to make peace with the situation together, or not at all. if you can't find an understanding and real (and lasting) forgiveness, then the sad reality may be that you need to say goodbye to each other for a while... or even for good.

any which way, you know that i am always here if you want to talk. you've got my number, my IM, etc.

you'll be ok babe- you've got some friends lookin' out for ya :-)

*hugs*
/j

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