Hmm...opinions please?
I'm copying and pasting this so I don't feel like going back and fixing my capitalization's, haha:
so kevs friends adam and lauren who are engaged and getting married in jamaica are a couple we hang out with pretty frequently. ive met laurens maid of honor rachel a few times and yesterday a bridal shower invite was sent to kevs house in my name. i really dont know the girls that well, except i do know lauren cause i spent some time with her and the boys. but i cant go to the wedding because its a. in jamaica... b. i'm broke...and c. kevin had already booked his hotel and flight and is splitting a room with his buddy joey. so...since i'm not going to the wedding, it's standard that u dont really go to the bridal shower. but since the wedding is destination, is the ettiquite different?
There's my question. See, thing is, I think I'd maybe like to go. And I am invited. Kevin said he'd totally understand if I didn't want to go. That made me think he didn't want me to. It's the same night as Adam's bachelor party. I think it might be fun... I do know some of the girls, they know me as Lindsey, Kevin's girlfriend, but I don't know them that well. I've also wanted to get in and get to know his group of girl friends more too. The destination wedding, I believe, is small, though it seems like most of his group of friends is going. That's probably....anywhere from 8-12 people.
I also have a destination wedding in St. Thomas for a close family friend in August...so even if Kevin had invited me specifically to the wedding, I wouldn't be able to go... two vacations in a summer is just not in my budget. But I wonder if Adam and Lauren assume Kev invited me and I just can't go and maybe that's why I'm invited to the shower? Thoughts, anyone?
so kevs friends adam and lauren who are engaged and getting married in jamaica are a couple we hang out with pretty frequently. ive met laurens maid of honor rachel a few times and yesterday a bridal shower invite was sent to kevs house in my name. i really dont know the girls that well, except i do know lauren cause i spent some time with her and the boys. but i cant go to the wedding because its a. in jamaica... b. i'm broke...and c. kevin had already booked his hotel and flight and is splitting a room with his buddy joey. so...since i'm not going to the wedding, it's standard that u dont really go to the bridal shower. but since the wedding is destination, is the ettiquite different?
There's my question. See, thing is, I think I'd maybe like to go. And I am invited. Kevin said he'd totally understand if I didn't want to go. That made me think he didn't want me to. It's the same night as Adam's bachelor party. I think it might be fun... I do know some of the girls, they know me as Lindsey, Kevin's girlfriend, but I don't know them that well. I've also wanted to get in and get to know his group of girl friends more too. The destination wedding, I believe, is small, though it seems like most of his group of friends is going. That's probably....anywhere from 8-12 people.
I also have a destination wedding in St. Thomas for a close family friend in August...so even if Kevin had invited me specifically to the wedding, I wouldn't be able to go... two vacations in a summer is just not in my budget. But I wonder if Adam and Lauren assume Kev invited me and I just can't go and maybe that's why I'm invited to the shower? Thoughts, anyone?