juuulio lugo (juuulio lugo), he's the reason for the word bitch (bitch!)

[throughadoor]

very, very important question: these shoes, fug or fab?

Poll estos zapatos:because, i don't know, they are teal, which i love, but i sort of hate that weird webbing bullshit on the toes. it reminds me of those hideous plastic beaded slipper shoes that everyone wore four summers ago that i wanted to melt in a fire while they were still on the wearers' feet

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[traveller]

maybe i should tell her that when we have dinner and then say, "but it's okay! i like you no matter what!"

YES. DO THAT.

[throughadoor]

our dinner date is may 20th. i'll report back!

[traveller]

*salute*

[eleveninches]

i totally thought she was a lesbian the entire time i helped her "garden" when i was in high school. maybe i should tell her that when we have dinner and then say, "but it's okay! i like you no matter what!"

You need to do that.

[throughadoor]

i'm worried i might unlease her inner closeted dyke. she's ... not my type.

[bossymarmalade]

Hopefully she was really caught off-guard and fucked up on the phone, and will be much better when you meet her? Lord. At least I can say for certain that those shoes are really awesome.

[throughadoor]

that is my hope too, although if it's more awkward? i'm lighting the table cloth on fire.

[ex_thissuga]

a. for the record, I can't decide whether those shoes are ugly or not myself. I said 'fab' though.

b. I'm trying to think? and I can't seem to remember a single reaction of anyone's that was "oh, that's great, I like you anyway", except possibly my mother's. which is-- okay, your parents reassuring you about something is maybe different, because there is this assumption that telling your parents you are queer could make them awkward. I do, however, prefer to come out to people by dropping it into casual conversation, and leaving people to figure it out for themselves; only the really brash or curious ask questions, and they'll never say 'I like you anyway!'.

[throughadoor]

yeah, i'm usually more likely to just slip mention of it into casual conversation and not make some big ANNOUNCEMENT. but i feel like it's weird to not say something if someone asks me point-blank if i have a boyfriend. i don't know. people are dumb.

[til_shes_irish]

1) I think those shoes are SO CLOSE to cute, but I have webbing issues.

2) I officially want to throttle that woman. If that had happened to me, I would want to shake her and say, "Is okay with you? Is it really okay? Because I was holding back on following through with my queerness until you gave me your permission."

[throughadoor]

i'm glad you understand my webbing issues. why can't i find awesome teal shoes without weird webbing?