how old are you?beezanatorMarch 19 2005, 21:28:27 UTC
I read something you wrote to a girl in a pro-ED journal, and I think you are very narrow minded. I also think you have no authority to judge someone on something you know nothing about. It's not "pressure the media puts on people" it's a mental disease that is very hard to get over, in fact you live your entire life with and eating disorder. Just telling someone they look fine and that they should eat does nothing to help the situation. Anorexia or bulmia is not necessarily something a person choses to do, just like depressing, sometimes it just happens. I am very offended at your statements because it just proves how ignorant you are on this issue, people go to those journals for support and no matter if you agree with that kind of thing or not, saying that they should "just eat" is riduclous. Just stay away from thing you know nothing about, we aren't looking for your opinion.
Re: how old are you?vamp_999March 23 2005, 08:23:29 UTC
Well as a person just wondering around journals I could help but have to reply to this retard! lol...oh my... it seems either u have/had an eating disorder or know someone who has one. And btw.. none can really help those people. They have to go to a recovery institute like every other fucked up adict! I've met and seen people who have it for man different reasons and it all boils down to what THEY want... no amount of support does shit. Whatever they want they will do end of story. So beezanator... how about if u don't have something nice to say... GO ON TO THE NEXT PERSON'S LIFE AND PERSONAL OPPINION and leave it alone.... (fucking retard!... look up the meaning of a "journal" lol)....
Re: how old are you?beezanatorMarch 23 2005, 09:03:54 UTC
You said you were 20 right? do you still live in your parents basement, considering you sound so innate that it would be fathomable that you never leave the comfort of your mommy. I do have and ED, and I'm not "fucked up" - the media had nothing to do with the development of my eating disorder. Sorry I commented on your lack of insight into something that you know nothing about. I have never been to a "recovery institute" like you say. I was just trying to give a little insight into something you clearly know nothing about, but think you do. As for your maturity level, that's a little lacking - but I think you are just looking for an argument, then again - what else wound you do besides sit in your basement, play with your star wars/lord of the rings action figures, pleasuring yourself to your fathers old playboys? well, you could go out and get a job, and be in the real world with the rest of the normal people - I think you are the fucked up one here - please do not email me anymore, I don't have time for your pathetic games
Re: how old are you?vamp_999March 23 2005, 09:18:19 UTC
lol first of all I'm female. Second I have a wonderful carreer, and do not live in mommy and daddy's basement! I do know what I'm talking about because I've been through this with many friends and could have easily developed an eating disorder but I have self control. And many of my friends have overcome it and a couple who haven't. For those who haven't there isn't anything anyone could possibly say or do to make them stop. Its completly up to them end of story. And there is nothing wrong with going to an institution for it. There is no shame. Same with those who go in for drugs or alcohol or even anger. That was all my point was... and the reason I insulted you, was because of the way u responded to this person's livejournal. YOU don't like me posting a reply to you... well guess what im sure this guy felt the same way about you... think about it...
Re: how old are you?thought_spotMarch 23 2005, 10:25:12 UTC
The fact that you choose to throw petty, childish insults my way in an attempt to hurt me with name-calling instead of actually talking about the issue you first accused me of knowing nothing about, only proves to me that you cannot back up what you say.
I'm not saying you're lying about you having an eating disorder, I'm just saying that you got so worked up over what I said to another girl that you felt the need to come in as a third wheel, and yet in all this time that you've ridiculed me for "clearly knowing nothing about this", you, yourself, have chosen to resort to name calling instead of talking about the issue yourself.
And let me get this straight... I reply to you in an adult manner, without calling you any names, and asking and encouraging you to tell me more about this if you feel I don't know anything, and your response is to assume I live in my parents basement and look at issues of Playboy? And I'm the immature one
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My reply can be found here;
http://www.livejournal.com/users/beezanator/3627.html?view=4139#t4139
My original post to the girl in question (Lauren) can be found here;
http://www.livejournal.com/community/0nlythreeweeks/1407576.html#cutid1
(I'm the first comment)
Lauren's reply to my comment can be found here;
http://www.livejournal.com/users/thought_spot/55331.html?nc=6
(at the very bottom)
What you say? Am I being unreasonbly narrow-minded? Too brash?
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I'm not saying you're lying about you having an eating disorder, I'm just saying that you got so worked up over what I said to another girl that you felt the need to come in as a third wheel, and yet in all this time that you've ridiculed me for "clearly knowing nothing about this", you, yourself, have chosen to resort to name calling instead of talking about the issue yourself.
And let me get this straight... I reply to you in an adult manner, without calling you any names, and asking and encouraging you to tell me more about this if you feel I don't know anything, and your response is to assume I live in my parents basement and look at issues of Playboy? And I'm the immature one ( ... )
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