Sep 26, 2010 12:16
It's been about 8 weeks since my wife passed and I am coming up against something I never thought i would......at least not this soon......HORNINESS!
You know that your spouse was the love of your life and they suffered through excruciating torment their last days. You thought that they would always be the ONLY one for you and then it happens. STRONG PHYSICAL YEARNINGS. Not like those you had as a hormonal teen wondering what it will be like. The unbelievable yearnings you get when you KNOW what it's like and now don't have it. Sure, my wife and I were celibate for 25 years due to her conditions, but I had her to help me through and take my mind off it. Now, NOTHING, and the urges go stronger by the second. HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH THIS?!?
You've overcome grief and to a fairly good extent sadness and loneliness, only to get a right upper-cross from horniness. And not just the kind that self-manipulation will handle. you need the WHOLE nine-yards, physical, with emotional and spiritual. What's a person to do in those cases?
How do you hadle this problem?
relationships,
recovering,
horniness