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Things have been going well. Mike and I are still seeing each other. I have been struggling with the fact that he wants to spend time with me constantly and I miss my alone time with Carleigh. It's hard for me because, it has just been Carleigh and me for so long. I enjoy going out occasionally, but also enjoy the time at home. My house work is suffering and constant drop-ins bother me a little. I also have told him that I feel that on the weekends he has with his kids, should be spent with his children and not with me. He says that he understands, but still brings his son over when he has them on their weekends. I guess I should feel flattered that he wants to spend so much time with me, but I do feel a little smothered. I have not talked to him about how I am feeling, I don't want to cause any problems. I really care for him. I am not use to someone wanting to spend so much time with me. When I was seeing Carleigh's father, I had to fight for his attention, almost had to beg to get him to spend time with me. This is so completely different. I am not sure what to do. I want to be in a relationship with him, I just want my space without hurting him in the process.