every love is true love... it's just a matter of how 'deep' that emotion is rooted... think about it... have you ever heard of fake love? no... all love is real, because all love is in the moment...
the way I look at it, because I have been in a similar scenario, is that you are in love with the old persona of that person... the way they were... I'm still in love with the person my ex used to be and the way I remember her... I changed and she changed... visions blurred... whatever... the love was still there...
try not to question human emotion too much, because I have lately, and the more I ask the more I want to know... it's a cycle... don't get caught up in it...
i agree with love being true love, i wasnt talking about someone changing, i was talking about them having this fake persona the whole time you knew them, if you were in love with that fake persona, and not with that person's true self, were you ever actually in love with that person..
1: they say that every actor gives a part of themself to the part they play... and that is in fact what this person was doing.. they were playing a part... so it could be that you were in love with a part of that person...
2: you could look at it all as you only ever love someones personas(plural of persona?)... the them that you see... because no one will ever see all of anyone ecept themself... and if they are lucky they won't even see all of themself... but I digress... in this way of thinking, the love was no less true, you merely loved one of their personas...
the way I look at it, because I have been in a similar scenario, is that you are in love with the old persona of that person... the way they were... I'm still in love with the person my ex used to be and the way I remember her... I changed and she changed... visions blurred... whatever... the love was still there...
try not to question human emotion too much, because I have lately, and the more I ask the more I want to know... it's a cycle... don't get caught up in it...
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i wasnt talking about someone changing, i was talking about them having this fake persona the whole time you knew them, if you were in love with that fake persona, and not with that person's true self, were you ever actually in love with that person..
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they say that every actor gives a part of themself to the part they play... and that is in fact what this person was doing.. they were playing a part... so it could be that you were in love with a part of that person...
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you could look at it all as you only ever love someones personas(plural of persona?)... the them that you see... because no one will ever see all of anyone ecept themself... and if they are lucky they won't even see all of themself... but I digress... in this way of thinking, the love was no less true, you merely loved one of their personas...
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