There is a difference in being in love and being in love with the way someone makes you feel. In this case it was the way the person made you feel at the time and yes there was a true love for that feeling but not the person.
Well if someone was putting on a front for you then sure, that trust is gone but it depends on the reason for them doing it as to rather or not they can be trusted again. No matter what, you will never feel the same with or around them but the innocence of the relationship is gone but that doesn't mean that hatred has to be produced and it sure doesn't mean that it's the end of the relationship. You could actually really get to know the person and how they really are and love them more than you thought you did to begin with or on the other hand you could hate the way they are and spend a long time searching for someone or some thing that can make you feel that way again.
oh im not worried about hating someone, i think if you loved them, its almost impossible to go from one extreme to the other, i do believe in being very bitter towards the situation though. oh and i dont like ending relationships.. but sometimes change is due. and that search is probably what keeps us going in life.
oh yeah, the search for happiness is definately what keeps us going. It's what we live for rather it be a person, job or anything else that gives us that feeling.
off the subject but i think as long as we have that drive nothing else really matters.. i mean thats what keeps things going, so as long as its there, everything will continue in circles.
I think what throws us off track is when we find the wrong person and try to make them what makes us happy. It often happens by someone making us think they are something they are not at first just like you were saying earlier.
Exactly. We find someone who has either the look or personality or any one of the traits that we need to make us happy and we try so hard to make them have everything that we want that we ruin the good that they posess.
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but is that security and trust now taken away? (that has a lot to do with how that person made you feel)
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and that search is probably what keeps us going in life.
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