Mar 10, 2005 23:01
In a nutshell, "testing" is a woman's way of QUICKLY
finding out a lot of information with a very small
investment.
You must remember that beautiful women are being
approached ALL THE TIME in one way or another... just
about every man they meet tries to pick them up or
come on to them.
Women can FEEL this happening, even before it actually
starts.
Now, if a woman is "available", she must figure
out a way to "separate the men from the boys" so to
speak, and figure out if a particular man is going
to be worth her time.
Enter the TEST.
Also, if an attractive woman is out on a date with
a man, or having a phone conversation, etc. (or anything
else that could be perceived as taking things to the
next level) she must find out quickly whether this
particular guy is:
1) Long-term relationship material
2) Short-term "affair" material
3) Friend material
4) Wuss material
5) The Gimp from Pulp Fiction
Keep in mind, a beautiful woman has LOTS of options.
She's being approached probably 100+ times a month
with date offers, etc. and could never hope to spend
even a small fraction of her time with all the men
who are interested in her.
She must use TESTS to quickly cut to the chase
and find out what a particular guy is REALLY all about.
Tests can take many forms.
Here are a few common ones:
1) Canceling plans with little notice, or flaking
out entirely without notice
2) Asking for gifts or favors outright
3) Acting snotty, demanding, dramatic, or manipulative
to see if you'll put up with it
4) Asking or telling you to change your behavior
5) Threatening to leave or take her attention and
give it to someone else if you don't comply with her
wishes
...and the list goes on.
As you already know, women often use more SUBTLE
tests as well.
For instance, complaining that you don't answer
her directly, to see if you will.
Or telling you that what you're doing is annoying
to her.