Aug 24, 2009 13:05
i'm contemplating breaking up with adam. we're not having problems necessarily, just differences in ideas of where our relationship should go i think. we've been seeing each other for almost 6 months now, i kind of thought his unwillingness to get married and have children was just something he said to feel manly but his lack of ability to connect with me is starting to become very apparent. most of his friends have gotten married within the last couple years and everyone of them has said he tried to convince them out of it on their wedding day, stating "1. you will never have sex with anyone else .. ever! 2. forever, really? 3. all women are controlling 4. you will have 5 days out of the year to see your friends." and more stuff like that. i feel like most people don't want to die alone. i see him maybe twice a week. these things are only starting to bother me because i'm getting attached so i feel like maybe i need to leave before i get hurt.
a lot of people say its better to have loved and lost but is it worth it if its not love just yet?