back bitches
back because i have nothing better to do than troll the World of Warcraft general forums, and because everybody i know is a prime specimen of trash i just had to let out some hate.
first thing i want to talk about is RELATIONSHIPS, new yet, not so new to me. I know how they go, they're all dispicable and useless if you know who you are and what you want. Relationships promise alot, yet they promise nothing.
"Hi, I'm a relationship, I'll grant you smiles and happy sunshine kisses for a small price, that of your friendship with everyone you know!"
The truth is you cannot maintain a friendship with your peers and a relationship with a boy or girl at the same time, Healthfully. Yes i realize heathfully is not a word, but it is now because i just said made it one.
There are scenarios yes, a few being.
A) typical "boy or girl demands all my time when im not sleeping, in a restroom (if im lucky) at work or any other place they are incapable of following me in/at"
these relationships are the winners. Guy meets girl, girl likes guy, guy likes girl, guy puts on a scharade, girl takes the bait, guy now owns the girl as if she were his possession, guy takes off his sweet mask because he now knows he has her, relationship dwindles, break up, *rejoice!* then comes the longing for a feeling of acceptance with someone, only form of acceptace they had was from ex jerk-ass lover, girl breaks down and calls ex back, guy returns call when hes not fucking someone else, they get back together, guy cheats now because he can, girl has 2nd thoughts, breakup, repeat.
Yes thats the majority of relationships i see. And the best thing about them is they're almost always the BIG FIRSTS! you all know that big first feeling, YES THIS IS LOVE OH BOY I CANT BELEIVE IM SO LUCKY, you start texting your lover ceaselessly, if you arent glued to your phone, its AIM, if you arent glued to AIM its in person.
every
fucking
chance
you get
you're sucking that happy feeling
out of this person.
But you think thats what you're sposed to do because ITS THE ONE!!! how the fuck do you know? you've had what? other relationships before im sure. but the only thing that makes this ONE different is you didnt fuck up as much yet.
but you will, because leeching on someone like that will only lead to problems. Unless you have no free will of your own you will eventually start to crack.
my advise to these people..
slow it the fuck down. Remember you still have friend who enjoy seeing you, dont forget them. give the text messages a rest, if you need to constantly remind your lover you "love them" ....... then let me kick both of your faces in with my boots, you make baby jesus vomit.
NEXT!
Next we have the "i just got out of a big relationship and i dont want to be in another one for a while i just wanna go out and do what i want to do"
ah yes, the ever popular WILD REBOUND! the above is really just another way of saying.. *ahem*
I'm about to become the BIGGEST whore you've ever seen!!!!!!!
bascily. and when they get sick of whoring, they'll stick with the last guy they whored with and.. well.. see the first rant only minus the FIRST BIG LOVE and change it to "well i got sick of whoring and you're pretty cool, since we already had sex about a dozen times lets give this a shot" not all that great of a mindset to base a relationship on but, your mistake not mine. good luck, idiot.
What else do we have here, OH YES! my personal favorite..
The "you're taking too long to make up your mind about us, its been a week and if you dont know you want to be with me than im going to move on"
A K A. I want something, and i want it NOWWWWWWWWWWW!
These relationships always end with the girl or guy leaving whoever it was after a few days of getting to know each other for someone else who they MAY have just met or known for a while. Either way they forget the logical person who wants to wait and make sure that this is going to work out for the betterment of both people for some HOTSHOT who promises everything and delivers nothing. These always end with the runaway coming back and saying "you were right..." yes FOOLS RUSH IN. do they learn their lesson? no. they never do.
^^^^^^^^^^this is currently going on with me right now^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
you're talking to someone, they think you're cool, you think they're cool. they want to get together, you say.. after 48 hours? they say duh, you say, gimme a while k? and then what? you know it... here it comes, they hit you with the big W
WHATEVER.
Congradulations! you're now 12!!!!!! NEXT
what is next? well i dont know of any other relationship types that cant be summed up in those 3 by some degree of variation or the other.. so ill just go off on another more personal rant
Hi, I'm james stough, some of you might know me. some of you. Dont know what you know me as, dont really care. I'm here to just say that I like to consider myself of having a pretty extreme personality, extreme as in not really programmed like everyone else you may know. not as in Extreme i jump out of airplanes riding a bull extreme, though i have been known to on occasion, unbeknownst to anyone reading ;)
NOOOOOW
I think i'll pretty much be a very singular person from now untill i die, singular in every way. single. Tried to get the significant other thing, never worked. Got too used to myself and what i like. I dont need someone to tell me i'm pretty or anything, i really dont have a yearning for love that im searching for because to me LOVE IS NO DIFFERENT than anything you like to do, that makes you feel good. I would go into deeper detail but just think about if for a while, you should be able to grasp what im saying. I've gotten so used to supporting myself emotionally that no matter what friends go in and out of my life, no matter if any girl comes in and tries to snafu my habbits, no matter ANYTHING I will always never wax nor wane.. wayne?..
I wish everyone could learn this trait, the enlightenment of finding your true self and focusing your future on what YOU want to do, strictly. NOT what jhonny love-lips wants, not what Suzy satin-shoes needs. What YOU want to DO with YOUR life. IF they (*your sig others*) want to go en route with you, then all the better for you and YOUR goals, dont know if they much have any ambition for themselves but who cares its you.
i'm not so much looking for someone to fall "in love" with so much as im trying to find someone (well not really trying) who just shares the same intrests i do and who just happens to be walking the same road down life i am. Trust me less complications in life means a much happier stress-free enviroment.. you're all very smart capable people you should be able to sense problems before they start.
REMEMBER
A heart cant think but a brain cant feel the power of love
you need to train the 2 to work together and understand each other. when that happens you will become whole as a person and NOTHING will stand in your way EVER again.
~James.
first thing i want to talk about is RELATIONSHIPS, new yet, not so new to me. I know how they go, they're all dispicable and useless if you know who you are and what you want. Relationships promise alot, yet they promise nothing.
"Hi, I'm a relationship, I'll grant you smiles and happy sunshine kisses for a small price, that of your friendship with everyone you know!"
The truth is you cannot maintain a friendship with your peers and a relationship with a boy or girl at the same time, Healthfully. Yes i realize heathfully is not a word, but it is now because i just said made it one.
There are scenarios yes, a few being.
A) typical "boy or girl demands all my time when im not sleeping, in a restroom (if im lucky) at work or any other place they are incapable of following me in/at"
these relationships are the winners. Guy meets girl, girl likes guy, guy likes girl, guy puts on a scharade, girl takes the bait, guy now owns the girl as if she were his possession, guy takes off his sweet mask because he now knows he has her, relationship dwindles, break up, *rejoice!* then comes the longing for a feeling of acceptance with someone, only form of acceptace they had was from ex jerk-ass lover, girl breaks down and calls ex back, guy returns call when hes not fucking someone else, they get back together, guy cheats now because he can, girl has 2nd thoughts, breakup, repeat.
Yes thats the majority of relationships i see. And the best thing about them is they're almost always the BIG FIRSTS! you all know that big first feeling, YES THIS IS LOVE OH BOY I CANT BELEIVE IM SO LUCKY, you start texting your lover ceaselessly, if you arent glued to your phone, its AIM, if you arent glued to AIM its in person.
every
fucking
chance
you get
you're sucking that happy feeling
out of this person.
But you think thats what you're sposed to do because ITS THE ONE!!! how the fuck do you know? you've had what? other relationships before im sure. but the only thing that makes this ONE different is you didnt fuck up as much yet.
but you will, because leeching on someone like that will only lead to problems. Unless you have no free will of your own you will eventually start to crack.
my advise to these people..
slow it the fuck down. Remember you still have friend who enjoy seeing you, dont forget them. give the text messages a rest, if you need to constantly remind your lover you "love them" ....... then let me kick both of your faces in with my boots, you make baby jesus vomit.
NEXT!
Next we have the "i just got out of a big relationship and i dont want to be in another one for a while i just wanna go out and do what i want to do"
ah yes, the ever popular WILD REBOUND! the above is really just another way of saying.. *ahem*
I'm about to become the BIGGEST whore you've ever seen!!!!!!!
bascily. and when they get sick of whoring, they'll stick with the last guy they whored with and.. well.. see the first rant only minus the FIRST BIG LOVE and change it to "well i got sick of whoring and you're pretty cool, since we already had sex about a dozen times lets give this a shot" not all that great of a mindset to base a relationship on but, your mistake not mine. good luck, idiot.
What else do we have here, OH YES! my personal favorite..
The "you're taking too long to make up your mind about us, its been a week and if you dont know you want to be with me than im going to move on"
A K A. I want something, and i want it NOWWWWWWWWWWW!
These relationships always end with the girl or guy leaving whoever it was after a few days of getting to know each other for someone else who they MAY have just met or known for a while. Either way they forget the logical person who wants to wait and make sure that this is going to work out for the betterment of both people for some HOTSHOT who promises everything and delivers nothing. These always end with the runaway coming back and saying "you were right..." yes FOOLS RUSH IN. do they learn their lesson? no. they never do.
^^^^^^^^^^this is currently going on with me right now^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
you're talking to someone, they think you're cool, you think they're cool. they want to get together, you say.. after 48 hours? they say duh, you say, gimme a while k? and then what? you know it... here it comes, they hit you with the big W
WHATEVER.
Congradulations! you're now 12!!!!!! NEXT
what is next? well i dont know of any other relationship types that cant be summed up in those 3 by some degree of variation or the other.. so ill just go off on another more personal rant
Hi, I'm james stough, some of you might know me. some of you. Dont know what you know me as, dont really care. I'm here to just say that I like to consider myself of having a pretty extreme personality, extreme as in not really programmed like everyone else you may know. not as in Extreme i jump out of airplanes riding a bull extreme, though i have been known to on occasion, unbeknownst to anyone reading ;)
NOOOOOW
I think i'll pretty much be a very singular person from now untill i die, singular in every way. single. Tried to get the significant other thing, never worked. Got too used to myself and what i like. I dont need someone to tell me i'm pretty or anything, i really dont have a yearning for love that im searching for because to me LOVE IS NO DIFFERENT than anything you like to do, that makes you feel good. I would go into deeper detail but just think about if for a while, you should be able to grasp what im saying. I've gotten so used to supporting myself emotionally that no matter what friends go in and out of my life, no matter if any girl comes in and tries to snafu my habbits, no matter ANYTHING I will always never wax nor wane.. wayne?..
I wish everyone could learn this trait, the enlightenment of finding your true self and focusing your future on what YOU want to do, strictly. NOT what jhonny love-lips wants, not what Suzy satin-shoes needs. What YOU want to DO with YOUR life. IF they (*your sig others*) want to go en route with you, then all the better for you and YOUR goals, dont know if they much have any ambition for themselves but who cares its you.
i'm not so much looking for someone to fall "in love" with so much as im trying to find someone (well not really trying) who just shares the same intrests i do and who just happens to be walking the same road down life i am. Trust me less complications in life means a much happier stress-free enviroment.. you're all very smart capable people you should be able to sense problems before they start.
REMEMBER
A heart cant think but a brain cant feel the power of love
you need to train the 2 to work together and understand each other. when that happens you will become whole as a person and NOTHING will stand in your way EVER again.
~James.