Boys don't get it do they
So, I have had the recent sad realization that even the "good ones" are still men at the end of the day and that means that they still do stupid things and they still occasionally make you very sad.
I'm not sure if I wrote about it here but George is going to a wedding this Friday that I can't go to becuase it's at 5 and I have a crazy lab I can't miss until at least 4 and well it's like 2 and a half hours away. Well he didn't want to go without a date so I had no problem with him taking someone, though I wasn't thrilled when he picked some girl from work he's only known a few months and I've never even met. Well Last night, like a day before this is going to happen I come to find out becuase he thought it was no big deal and apparently not even worth mentioning, that despite the fact that the wedding is like an hour and a half maybe 2 hours in bad traffic from his house. They will be staying in a hotel... together... not 1... but 2 nights. Tonight after the pre wedding dinner party, and tomorrow after the wedding and reception.
First of all, even if I were going I'd think a hotel was silly and excessive PERIOD, let alone for 2 nights. Just don't get wasted and you can drive home... simple right? But I'm not going am I? And that puts my liquored up boyfriend in a hotel room with an attractive stranger of the opposite sex... on our 15 month anniversary no less. But apparently he saw and continues to see nothing wrong with this, and apparently if she agreed to it, she's smoking out of the same bowl.
So basically, it doesn't matter what I think or how I feel or how much I try and express either of those points to him, he just says "I'm sorry you're upset I didn't know it would be a big deal, I would have cleared it with you first." But he didn't and he obviously isn't going to do anything about it now,So he'll try and tell me he loves me (which I don't want to hear) and assure me nothing will happen (which I can't 100% buy cuz even if I trust him fully, I don't trust her as fas as I can throw her). But I simply cannot feel good about this situation and it makes me sad that he is going to do it despite that, and if anything happens they'll be putting me in a padded room after the killing spree I'm sure.
So... that said I cried for 4 hours last night and I'll probably be about as depressed for the next week or so that I have been in a long long while. How was your night?
I'm not sure if I wrote about it here but George is going to a wedding this Friday that I can't go to becuase it's at 5 and I have a crazy lab I can't miss until at least 4 and well it's like 2 and a half hours away. Well he didn't want to go without a date so I had no problem with him taking someone, though I wasn't thrilled when he picked some girl from work he's only known a few months and I've never even met. Well Last night, like a day before this is going to happen I come to find out becuase he thought it was no big deal and apparently not even worth mentioning, that despite the fact that the wedding is like an hour and a half maybe 2 hours in bad traffic from his house. They will be staying in a hotel... together... not 1... but 2 nights. Tonight after the pre wedding dinner party, and tomorrow after the wedding and reception.
First of all, even if I were going I'd think a hotel was silly and excessive PERIOD, let alone for 2 nights. Just don't get wasted and you can drive home... simple right? But I'm not going am I? And that puts my liquored up boyfriend in a hotel room with an attractive stranger of the opposite sex... on our 15 month anniversary no less. But apparently he saw and continues to see nothing wrong with this, and apparently if she agreed to it, she's smoking out of the same bowl.
So basically, it doesn't matter what I think or how I feel or how much I try and express either of those points to him, he just says "I'm sorry you're upset I didn't know it would be a big deal, I would have cleared it with you first." But he didn't and he obviously isn't going to do anything about it now,So he'll try and tell me he loves me (which I don't want to hear) and assure me nothing will happen (which I can't 100% buy cuz even if I trust him fully, I don't trust her as fas as I can throw her). But I simply cannot feel good about this situation and it makes me sad that he is going to do it despite that, and if anything happens they'll be putting me in a padded room after the killing spree I'm sure.
So... that said I cried for 4 hours last night and I'll probably be about as depressed for the next week or so that I have been in a long long while. How was your night?