How I like my men... Wasn't so
I had a pretty cute 21 year old Taurus recently come into my life. I didn't expect him to fall for me the way he did. It was such a great burst of energy I felt from him and it reminded me of how passionate I used to be when I would dive into a guy I liked without precaution... When I was 21, like him.
The way he sees things, his goals, his priorities, his theories... all seemed so juvenile to me. I been through it already. I don't know why I even entertained this kid after I asked his age... but I guess it was because I love attention. I love a good ego-boost and he sure did give him. It was great to hear someone say they think so highly of me. Even to the point where he said he felt small being around me.
In the same token, I wasn't trying to make him feel small. I was explaining to him the reasons I don't want to be with him... and his immaturity was a key factor.
And while I love attention and compliments, he somehow managed to make that annoying. It was too forced. Almost like, he was saying those things in hopes of not losing me.
I thought I would like a man who relentlessly praises me but after this experience, I truly don't.
The way he sees things, his goals, his priorities, his theories... all seemed so juvenile to me. I been through it already. I don't know why I even entertained this kid after I asked his age... but I guess it was because I love attention. I love a good ego-boost and he sure did give him. It was great to hear someone say they think so highly of me. Even to the point where he said he felt small being around me.
In the same token, I wasn't trying to make him feel small. I was explaining to him the reasons I don't want to be with him... and his immaturity was a key factor.
And while I love attention and compliments, he somehow managed to make that annoying. It was too forced. Almost like, he was saying those things in hopes of not losing me.
I thought I would like a man who relentlessly praises me but after this experience, I truly don't.