Look an update
My last post was two months ago so I thought that I should update.
The biggest news, my sister Caroline got married on the 4th of october. She was so beautiful. Daniel and her make a beautiful couple and they'll have a baby in a few months. The wedding itself was short but the party after was great. Too much food, a beautiful wedding cake and a lot of fun. My Mom' sister was there and she had to make a remark as usual but Mom put her in line efficiently.
Work is crazy and I am so tired both physically and emotionally. I learned this past week-end that when my grand-father will pass away, the 2/3 of the inheritance will go to my uncle, my uncle also has a promissory note of 30 000 euros from my father, it means that my sister and me will end up with nothing. It's not for the money because I couldn't care less but I am angry because it's being rejected again by my father family. It's like we are our mother children, not our father. I guess I should be grateful because as my uncle said, the french law forbid disinheritance (so if I am understanding him well, should the law allow it, my sister and I could go to hell for all he cares). And my uncle plays the nice and solicitous uncle for his so cute wee little nieces. I am 38, you jerk and I can see right through your s***. Sorry for the language but I am so angry. I am thinking on turning down what little we will get, I am not a charity case, he can have it all and be buried with it when he'll die.
Then there was the not so real break up of my other sister and the father of her children (and let me tell you that love makes people do stupid things) and I really need a break. I wish I could take 3 weeks of vacations and go somewhere else with no family, no work and no problems. Like that is going to happen.
On the positive side, we had a get together lunch at my parents on sunday and it was really nice. We had a lot of fun with my crazy brother in law. Even if I am so angry and frustrated with my father family, I am lucky because I have a Mom, a step-dad, sisters, brothers in law and nephews that bring me joy, love and strength. I'll try to keep that in mind when I'll feel down.
The biggest news, my sister Caroline got married on the 4th of october. She was so beautiful. Daniel and her make a beautiful couple and they'll have a baby in a few months. The wedding itself was short but the party after was great. Too much food, a beautiful wedding cake and a lot of fun. My Mom' sister was there and she had to make a remark as usual but Mom put her in line efficiently.
Work is crazy and I am so tired both physically and emotionally. I learned this past week-end that when my grand-father will pass away, the 2/3 of the inheritance will go to my uncle, my uncle also has a promissory note of 30 000 euros from my father, it means that my sister and me will end up with nothing. It's not for the money because I couldn't care less but I am angry because it's being rejected again by my father family. It's like we are our mother children, not our father. I guess I should be grateful because as my uncle said, the french law forbid disinheritance (so if I am understanding him well, should the law allow it, my sister and I could go to hell for all he cares). And my uncle plays the nice and solicitous uncle for his so cute wee little nieces. I am 38, you jerk and I can see right through your s***. Sorry for the language but I am so angry. I am thinking on turning down what little we will get, I am not a charity case, he can have it all and be buried with it when he'll die.
Then there was the not so real break up of my other sister and the father of her children (and let me tell you that love makes people do stupid things) and I really need a break. I wish I could take 3 weeks of vacations and go somewhere else with no family, no work and no problems. Like that is going to happen.
On the positive side, we had a get together lunch at my parents on sunday and it was really nice. We had a lot of fun with my crazy brother in law. Even if I am so angry and frustrated with my father family, I am lucky because I have a Mom, a step-dad, sisters, brothers in law and nephews that bring me joy, love and strength. I'll try to keep that in mind when I'll feel down.