Colour Quiz
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Your Existing Situation
Unwilling to extend herself or exert undue effort (with the possible exception of sexual activity). Feels that further progress requires more from her than she is willing or able to give. Would prefer reasonable comfort and security rather than the rewards of greater ambition.
Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled hopes have led to uncertainty and apprehension. Needs to feel secure and to avoid any further disappointment, and fears being passed over or losing standings and prestige. Doubts that things will be any better in the future and this negative attitude leads her to make exaggerated demands and to refuse to make reasonable compromises.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to participate and to allow herself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.
********************Believes that she is not receiving her share--that she is neither properly understood or adequately appreciated.*********************** Feels that she is being compelled to conform, and close relationships leave her without any sense of emotional involvement.
Your Desired Objective
Has an imperative need for some bond or fusion with another which will prove sensually fulfilling, but which will not conflict with her convictions or sense of fitness.
Your Actual Problem
*************Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, and she is distressed by the lack of any close and understanding relationship. She attempts to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as she desires them to be.
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100% true. Particularly these:
#Believes that she is not receiving her share--that she is neither properly understood or adequately appreciated.
#Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, and she is distressed by the lack of any close and understanding relationship.
#She attempts to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as she desires them to be.
So sad, so sad. I don't have the slightest clue how to fix anything now. I'm feeling totally defeated, lonely, detached, hopelessly screwed up. Just can't be strong anymore, for no one, least of all myself...