*That… wasn’t quite what Aubrey had meant, no, but he lets it go without verbal comment, although perhaps his conjuring of a whiskey glass for Blue is just a little pointed.*
[Blue's thought are moving a bit slow but catches the glass thing. He makes a face.] Sorry. [He cleans the mouth of the bottle and then pours some in the glass.] Sorry. I'm being...I feel like I got stunned.
That depends a lot on her motivations. And on how much infidelity matters to you, however fleeting. If you had kissed someone, would you want Sofie to forgive you?
[That brings him up short. He's had this weird thign with Kimmi and it could construed as cheating, right? Sofie would hate. Is he any better?] I guess I would.
So, here’s what I think. You went from not actually dating to very seriously dating to imminent marriage to living entirely apart in an extremely short space of time, and us humans just aren’t all that great at adapting to fast changes. So don’t. Slow your roll, as I assume people say. Take a moment, or two, or three. Decide what you actually want. Decide where your boundaries are. Communicate that with each other. And if in the time it takes you to forgive her, she goes off with whoever she cheated on you with, then this whole thing wasn’t meant to be.
Revenge kissing someone else is a really bad idea, Colours. Especially if it’s someone it turns out you might like kissing and want to keep on kissing when there’s a chance they’ll find out you only kissed them the first time for revenge.
*Aubrey offers Blue the whiskey.*
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[Blue takes it. He looks around for a glass but gives up pretty quickly and takes a swig from the bottle.]
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*That… wasn’t quite what Aubrey had meant, no, but he lets it go without verbal comment, although perhaps his conjuring of a whiskey glass for Blue is just a little pointed.*
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[Blue's thought are moving a bit slow but catches the glass thing. He makes a face.] Sorry. [He cleans the mouth of the bottle and then pours some in the glass.] Sorry. I'm being...I feel like I got stunned.
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Sofie.
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She cheated on me.
...that doesn't sound real.
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Would you like me to tell you you’re over-reacting?
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Do you think I am?
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That depends a lot on her motivations. And on how much infidelity matters to you, however fleeting. If you had kissed someone, would you want Sofie to forgive you?
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[That brings him up short. He's had this weird thign with Kimmi and it could construed as cheating, right? Sofie would hate. Is he any better?] I guess I would.
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So, here’s what I think. You went from not actually dating to very seriously dating to imminent marriage to living entirely apart in an extremely short space of time, and us humans just aren’t all that great at adapting to fast changes. So don’t. Slow your roll, as I assume people say. Take a moment, or two, or three. Decide what you actually want. Decide where your boundaries are. Communicate that with each other. And if in the time it takes you to forgive her, she goes off with whoever she cheated on you with, then this whole thing wasn’t meant to be.
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Yeah. That...ok, yeah. That sounds like the healthy thing to do.
So revenge kissing someone else is a really bad idea, right?
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You’re cute, but I’m not interested.
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Heh. I wasn't propositioning you. [There's Kimmi...] Drew's single. And she hasn't tried to prank me or hex me in ages.
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Revenge kissing someone else is a really bad idea, Colours. Especially if it’s someone it turns out you might like kissing and want to keep on kissing when there’s a chance they’ll find out you only kissed them the first time for revenge.
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Yeah, I know it's a bad idea. I don't think I'm the revenge kissing type.
Sofie won't tell me who the guy is and I don't know why.
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