The greatest girl
So, there's some good news, and some bad. I've been talking online this past week with a girl I went to college with. While at college she was in a long term relationship, so I had thought "She's pretty cool and she's really cute. But she's off limits." We were friendly with each other whenever around each other and it was all good. Recently though, she broke up with her boyfriend, who, it turns out, was a total dick. So we've been chatting a WHOLE lot online, and, it kind of turns out that we're perfect for each other. We're both romantics, both enjoy a bunch of the same stuff, and both have a very similar sense of humor.
The bad news? She's in Connecticut. We both feel it. And she said in one aspect it is good because since she just got out of a relationship, she's not ready to jump back into one, she feels she needs to date a bunch first. And she said to me "I don't think I could casually see other guys if you were here, but I'm not ready for a boyfriend yet." On the other hand it sucks, because I've connected really well with her. We've talked for HOURS everyday (she's able to chat a lot when working on her show) and I know more about her now than some of my best friends. There have been tons of laughs. So, yeah, I'm really hooked. I'm hoping this is a long time thing and that at some point we can be together. There's a really good opening for Assistant Stage Manager for Blue Man Group out here, so I put the idea in her head of moving out here. I'm not going to hold my breath for it, but it would be great if she could, although her mother is against her being so far away.
I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much overall, but I have no doubt that the feelings are mutual. It's just been so long, it's hard not to want to be close.
But overall, this makes me happy.
The bad news? She's in Connecticut. We both feel it. And she said in one aspect it is good because since she just got out of a relationship, she's not ready to jump back into one, she feels she needs to date a bunch first. And she said to me "I don't think I could casually see other guys if you were here, but I'm not ready for a boyfriend yet." On the other hand it sucks, because I've connected really well with her. We've talked for HOURS everyday (she's able to chat a lot when working on her show) and I know more about her now than some of my best friends. There have been tons of laughs. So, yeah, I'm really hooked. I'm hoping this is a long time thing and that at some point we can be together. There's a really good opening for Assistant Stage Manager for Blue Man Group out here, so I put the idea in her head of moving out here. I'm not going to hold my breath for it, but it would be great if she could, although her mother is against her being so far away.
I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much overall, but I have no doubt that the feelings are mutual. It's just been so long, it's hard not to want to be close.
But overall, this makes me happy.