Wedding list (rough format)
So I never thought making the guest list for the wedding would be so hard. We are trying to limit the list to 50 people total.
And yes that means 25 each. This means people will be hurt and some of the people I want to invite I can't . This also means we will not be inviting childern, and that may offended some. But they can suck it up this will be our day, well really Juliet's Day as I fall more in the normal guy range about weddings (ie but honey why do we need a big wedding there is a Judge right there)
Also the current plan is a small sternwheeler and we feel this is a unsafe place for small ones, and there will be booze. We are paying for our own wedding and not thinking that we will be getting any help paying for the bash so i would like to keep it to adults as well. I mean its one thing to tell someone that hey we had a limit, it a whole differnt ball game to tell someone they could not be invited because we have a bunch of small bits in the head count. (15 childern if everyone brought theirs from my friends alone) But even not looking at the child issues my current list is at 27, yep 2 over. I guessing i will be a bit under when we send out invites as some people will not be able to come in from out of town because of work or money trouble.
anyway grr
And yes that means 25 each. This means people will be hurt and some of the people I want to invite I can't . This also means we will not be inviting childern, and that may offended some. But they can suck it up this will be our day, well really Juliet's Day as I fall more in the normal guy range about weddings (ie but honey why do we need a big wedding there is a Judge right there)
Also the current plan is a small sternwheeler and we feel this is a unsafe place for small ones, and there will be booze. We are paying for our own wedding and not thinking that we will be getting any help paying for the bash so i would like to keep it to adults as well. I mean its one thing to tell someone that hey we had a limit, it a whole differnt ball game to tell someone they could not be invited because we have a bunch of small bits in the head count. (15 childern if everyone brought theirs from my friends alone) But even not looking at the child issues my current list is at 27, yep 2 over. I guessing i will be a bit under when we send out invites as some people will not be able to come in from out of town because of work or money trouble.
anyway grr