life is good, im alive and well, happy and together. but i need your help!

[thegoose]

To anyone in Livejournal land who still reads this, I have an important question to ask you all

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[crazyrican]

yes its immoral to kill a fetus but im totally pro choice. in the instances let's say if a girl gets raped and then she's pregnant why should she have to deal with that trauma by seeing her belly grow and a child come out.i personally i've known a couple girls who have abortions and it really messes up anyones mind. a friend of mine was in a relationship with a guy who had a fiance on the side. my friend she got pregnant, but doctors for the last 10-15 years kept telling her it was going to be impossible.so what does she do? after careful consideration and realization she cant come to drips with raising the child without a father. she has an abortion. from the day she had this abortion now going on 2 months she's distant, cold, angry, rarely returns phone calls when she was a phone talker..
Enclosing, i would just like to say sometimes people want to pretend to be adults by having unprotected sex or not being on birth control or something but then aren't ready for the ramifications, i wish people would be more mature in that sense there's more than one way to prevent babies.

but anyways good luck on your paper.

[thegoose]

Thank you for sharing the story. Anyone can argue about abortion all they want, but it's very difficult to understand for those who have never been put into that situation. Your friend was placed in a horrible, and emotionally draining situation, that could never be reversed, and has changed her life forever. Yet, at the same time, I have some friends, who have had several abortions, and think nothing of it. But unfortunatly, it's not how the situation moves the individual that dictates whether or not the abortion itself is moral or immoral. I relate back to the cold hard fact that a potential life is being eliminated, and regardless of whether we have the right to give or not give the unborn fetus life, is it truly moral to have such a say over an individual other than ourselves.