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Although a lot of people think me a whore, they must understand a few things first.
Matching people in a relationship is difficult. Has anyone ever noticed? It's like fitting puzzle peices together, they have to be perfectly sized and shaped or they wont go together. For people to go perfectly, one person must have certain qualities and want certain qualities for their match, then their match must have the certain qualities the person wants AND want the qualities the person has.
Complicated?? yeah.
When a girl is with someone who doesn't appreciate her qualities, or thinks they are annoying, and the girl doesn't like the guy's qualities and neither of them have the qualities they want in a match, but they have the hard core love thing down, it creates complication.
Therefore, when a boy comes along who appreciates the girl's qualities AND has qualities she, herself, has been looking for, it seems as though it is a miracle. It seems obvious that instead of the girl feeling badly and settling for less than she wants, she would jump for the chance to be appreciated for what she truly was, and made to feel the way she wants to feel exactly.
So there is that, my side of the story, my defense I suppose.
Matching people in a relationship is difficult. Has anyone ever noticed? It's like fitting puzzle peices together, they have to be perfectly sized and shaped or they wont go together. For people to go perfectly, one person must have certain qualities and want certain qualities for their match, then their match must have the certain qualities the person wants AND want the qualities the person has.
Complicated?? yeah.
When a girl is with someone who doesn't appreciate her qualities, or thinks they are annoying, and the girl doesn't like the guy's qualities and neither of them have the qualities they want in a match, but they have the hard core love thing down, it creates complication.
Therefore, when a boy comes along who appreciates the girl's qualities AND has qualities she, herself, has been looking for, it seems as though it is a miracle. It seems obvious that instead of the girl feeling badly and settling for less than she wants, she would jump for the chance to be appreciated for what she truly was, and made to feel the way she wants to feel exactly.
So there is that, my side of the story, my defense I suppose.