why is it that people my age are so confusing?? I don't get it, and I don't get them. Well I guess I don't get a lot of things then do I. Brutal
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i guess some people are afraid of opening up everything about themselves. they fear that if the wrong thing is said, then they lose everything they care about and are left alone...nobody wants to be alone, but sometimes things force them to be, and when they find someone, they don't want to lose them by scaring them with their past. guys are just confusing in particular because deep down, we all know that the jock who gets all the sex really isn't that good a person to be, and we spend our youth believing that and when we realize we can't be (or that we realize it's wrong...),then we feel bad about how we acted and try to act like nothing bad happened, our records were clean so that any future love interest can have substance and meaning, not just get-laid-quick schemes. guys keep a lot of pent-up sorrow about bthings like this, and i guess we're too childish to let it out...least that's how i see it
ok thats fair, and sometimes some things don't need to be said, i guess it depends on how you feel about the person u are with, how close you are with the other person, how the relationship is etc etc... Because you wouldn't open up totally to someone you were with if you were only with them fro aweek or so would you?? I don't really think so, you have to build that trust and comfort level before you start talking to anyone on either side. The comfort level and trust is what helps a person to talk about deep things in their past and all. Not everything has to be talked about, no one has to know everything if you dont' want them to. But when u do get close to someone they do want to know about u and know more about u and all...and you would want to know more about them. Thats how i see that anywayz
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you're right as usual...i care about you so much and i know we will be together for a long while, and you have a right to know about who i was before you met me...before i tried to reinvent myself into a failed shell of someone trying to fit into a world he doesn't understand. the world is opening up to me more, and i see how things work better than i did before, and i know that everything has a consequence and one must deal withthem in turn. i'm the result of several mistakes and improbabilities...i'm lucky to exist...so i should exist...
Yes you should exist, of course you should exist. And you do, and there is a damn good reason, and you will find it eventually, I promise.
You are not a mistake and everyone makes mistake in their lives. No one can honestly say they never made a mistake in their life. That wouldn't be true frankly.You are not a result of mistakes and imporbabilites...thats not true and not very fair to yourself at all. You are not a mistake.
No one understands the world around them, and those who think they do will be sadly mistaken. Its natural that you don't understand the world and therefore feel liuke you don't fit in and don't. I dind't fit in at all, ever. I'm glad the world is opening up to you, it should be. You aer right everything does have a consequence, unfortunately, and we all must deal with ther consequiences we are dealt.
a sad fact of life that we must deal with so much grief and sorrow with interspersed boughts of happiness....i know i'm supposed to do something, neither my sister or i would be around if we weren't supposed to do something...i guess we'll just have to wait and see,..i hope you'll be proud of it, whatever it may be...
where did your sister come into all this?? Ummm that sorta threw me off there. Ok then...but confusing.
I will likie whatever you do, no matter what it is, I will...but you are ultimately the one that needs to like what you are doing and be happy. Happiness is key! And you being happy is good. Of course! So you be happy and I will be too.
sorry...my sister wasn't supposed to happen either, but iwas more of a shock to them...one is weird...but two! must be a miracle...*blush* and i shall be happy so long as i may see your face or hear your voice, and with my dreams of touching your hand...
oh yes i forgot about that I am sorry, I do remember you telling me that your sister wasn't suppose to happen too. Oops sorry about that. But she did happen and so did you, and you were a miracle, or so I think!! And they should think so too. For definite sure. But your parents are lucky for you and your sister. They really are. You should be blushing...I will be happy as line as i get to see you too hun, its awesome!
guys are just confusing in particular because deep down, we all know that the jock who gets all the sex really isn't that good a person to be, and we spend our youth believing that and when we realize we can't be (or that we realize it's wrong...),then we feel bad about how we acted and try to act like nothing bad happened, our records were clean so that any future love interest can have substance and meaning, not just get-laid-quick schemes. guys keep a lot of pent-up sorrow about bthings like this, and i guess we're too childish to let it out...least that's how i see it
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You are not a mistake and everyone makes mistake in their lives. No one can honestly say they never made a mistake in their life. That wouldn't be true frankly.You are not a result of mistakes and imporbabilites...thats not true and not very fair to yourself at all. You are not a mistake.
No one understands the world around them, and those who think they do will be sadly mistaken. Its natural that you don't understand the world and therefore feel liuke you don't fit in and don't. I dind't fit in at all, ever. I'm glad the world is opening up to you, it should be. You aer right everything does have a consequence, unfortunately, and we all must deal with ther consequiences we are dealt.
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I will likie whatever you do, no matter what it is, I will...but you are ultimately the one that needs to like what you are doing and be happy. Happiness is key! And you being happy is good. Of course! So you be happy and I will be too.
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