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thefrew88

This university sux

Apr 23, 2004 14:46

So I look up my pyschology mark online just now, and guess what... i passed, except i didn't, because they think I didn't finish my five research participation credits that are a requirement for this stupid course, when I DID finish them and have fucking proof of it too. Stupid people, so now my mark is currently dropped down by 10% because of ( Read more... )

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Hey its Laura! anonymous April 29 2004, 13:33:31 UTC

I just wanted to say that it hurts me to know that you feel this way about our floor. I am sorry if you got the impression that you were unwanted, or didn't belong, because you did belong. I am personally sorry if I did anything to make you believe otherwise. I have never said anything bad about you, and I would never even today. From what I know of you, you are a strong individual, you should not feel rejected, or left out. I think at times, in general people felt that you didn't want to get to know us, and I guess in the end this whole situation is a big misunderstanding. I had no idea that you were hurting so much this year, and I am sorry for not noticing, but I think it is hard to know that people are hurting when you live with 20 other people. Anyways, Have a great summer, And be yourself, if people don't like you for who you are than they don't deserve to know you. See Ya
Laura

Re: Hey its Laura! thefrew88 April 30 2004, 11:50:07 UTC

WOW, thank you, everone else from the floor who either told me or wrote in LJ, wasn't too impressed i guess...well other people have commented on other things tho too. I don't konw after that whole deal with owen and all first semester that made it difficult. But such is life. And then with Conor and all, which was a little weird and all...that spiced it up a bit. Thank you for writing, I appreciate it very much, i really do. I don't konw it just seemed like our floor was so clicky and thats it, if u weren't in then you were out. I know I didn't make much of an effort at all, but thats just me I'm always like that. Oh well, everything is a laerning experience and I think next year will be ebtter. I'm not much of a living or bveing aorund a lot of people, i'm nt one for big groups. But you have a good summer too, keep in touch on MSN and all, ciao.

Re: Hey its Laura! anonymous May 8 2004, 14:36:45 UTC

If you're "just always like that", why are you expecting everyone else to make a huge effort on your part when you aren't willing to make any kind of effort yourself? I'm sorry, I wasn't there, and I obviously didn't go through what you did, but it seems a little bit like you were expecting people to jump up and make the whole effort for a friendship. If everyone were like that, then who would have any friends? I personally like you, and never had a reason to dislike you, but I also found that you weren't that friendly and were naturally pessimistic? I'm not trying to make any kind of attack, really, but if you want to avoid this kind of thing again (and I'm sure you do- I know how you're feeling right now), then you should think of the situation from your perspective AND from an outside perspective, because from my outside perspective, I found your floor to be really friendly and genuinely nice people whom I built solid friendships with.

Re: Hey its Laura! thefrew88 May 8 2004, 17:11:36 UTC

yes i can see that, I'm glad you built those friendships and everything, thats awesome! Well not knowing me you really aren't one to judge about a lot of stuff...I say I'm like that, but did it ever occur to you that maybe there is a reason behind it, a reason behind things?? I konw the ppl on my floor were nice people, they were, i agree. And I also know that everyone thought I was unfriendly and down and stuff like that, but how do i come back out of a rut so deep as what happened in first semester with owen. That was not the easiest thing ti get myself out of, and I didn't even put myself in it...if i had an option i wouldn't even have gotten involved with that situation, but unfrotunately I was. I would probably one the ones to take everyhitng from both perspectives before a lot of other people, but you wouldn't konw that, no one really would ( ... )

Re: Hey its Laura! thefrew88 May 8 2004, 17:17:22 UTC

I konw you dont' want to attack or sound like it or anything, but it really does, I'm sorry that I wrote it all, i can get rid of it if you want, but what u have to realize is that it is my journal and I will write how i feel. It does come off as a slight attack, i know it is for the best of meanings tho, but its natural in human nature to defend oneself. I am sorry i seemed negative and pessimistic all the time, but if you don't know me then really no one is one to judge at all. As well I can't judge those that I don't konw either. Again I'm sorry for being like that.

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