I'm kind of - not too bright sometimes. For example, when I grabbed an oven rack to move it around without, um, checking to see if it was hot? That was a "not so bright" moment in my life, right there.
Also, ow.
So I want distraction, with a minimum of typing involved. It's time for a poll! With, ideally, lots of comments! Come on, people -
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It does! Although I don't know if 'majority' is true. Watching canon is how most people become fans in the first place, presumably, but it seems like once you're in the culture, people often tend to stay just for chat and fic. But how focused you are on the source material does affect things like how you perceive canon vs. fanon, I think.
Re: being a gorilla, it's really more of an emotional conflict. Being a fan for me is obsession, an all-encompassing love. It's hard to give that to two or three sets of people and ideas at once. And once you get up to five or six, it turns into just sex, as it were - so much fun OMG, but no true involvement, and a bit frustrating that way.
But it's definitely the lack of time that lends it the urgency. If I were in college and had all summer to drift from one thing to another, I probably wouldn't worry about it. But trying to sneak fandom activity in at 2 a.m. (insomnia, check) and still hold down a steady job, it feels like every moment counts, and with so many choices, I have to consciously pick something to be absorbed in, and that's strange.
No solutions yet. I've just let fan things lapse for a while and been social, mostly. But been VERY stern about refusing to watch new shows, like this Slings & Arrows one hears so much about.
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