Reasons to...
I did this a long time ago. When i first thought of making the "column". I wrote this in a real bad moment, where i was really confused, well that's not new in me. Its not that i think this way still,
Here goes again the same question. The one I’ve been asking through all my teen years, and maybe the one I’ll be asking myself before and after I get married, if I one day get married of course. What’s love? Or more precisely, what makes a woman fall in love? Why are men so fantastic? Why even though we might hate their way of being, we women just drop to their feet? Was it destined to be like that? Aside from lesbians, and gays, why is the attraction among those two genders so strong?
For a person like me, not decided, selfish, and unknowing of many subjects of life, asking, what makes me feel fall in love, is a question to think of it. I mean I know I’m in love, but I never know the reasons of why am I in love. Is like, just attraction.
Out of the ordinary things, like the butterflies in the stomach and the thinking thing, how should I know I’m in love?
You know, I just realized this, love has a greater complexity than it looks. It’s not just about butterflies, or sex or attraction but it is a feeling that can’t be explained completely. Is something that will come right at it’s time, and you might skip it, like not realize it was there, and you just let it go.
Is love at first sight possible? Is human nature able to know that in the first meeting one could assure you that they were meant to be together? If that was only a physical attraction, then I must believe that love is only a myth, or simply harder to get to. Because if the body is the first thing a human sees for him or her to like the other person, then I must assume that all he or she is looking for is for sex, or something related to the body.
And if you think of it, love often gets confused as sex. If there stops to be sex in a relationship, then there is no love. Which might not be totally truth. Or might be.
That delivers me to a conclusion; for love to be there must be two kind of attactions physical, and emotional.
Love makes you act like a dumbass. I wont deny that love makes me blind. And that I would do anything for the person I most care for. No matter if it is right or wrong, if it makes him happy, I’ll do it. And it not only blinds me that way, but in the physical type too. I must confess that before I used to care about the appeareance of the other one. And it was when I realized that the physic is not all. No, it’s not about physic is about an emotion, a feeling.
And I don’t think everyone understands that. Unfortunately, we live in a world were being handsome is some kind of requirement to be liked.