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People love to use other people...but they use people blindly - as in they do it without thinking they are using someone
Almost all people care only about themselves,
They dont tend to consider what hurts or might hurt you
When you are in a serious relationship, things that matter to the other person, even if you think they are trivial, must matter to you.
One of the best lines ever from a movie, is:
"Little things, used to mean so much to Shelly. I used to think they were kind of trivial. . . believe me, nothing is trivial."
-Eric Draven, "The Crow"
It is from the movie The Crow, where Eric(The Crow) is speaking of his wife(Shelly). He is saying this after her murder. Its sad how people never realize what they have in people until its gone. They treat relationships with the value of a dime because they always take them for granted after the first few months. They get used to the person being there all the time and don't realize what they have, and in turn place such a low value on such a priceless thing. People seem to always have to ruin the relationship to realize what they had, and that they should have clung to every last string of it with all of their being. Material things are worthless. The only things that really matter are people close to you. No trivial anything is worth the demise of any relationship. You can never go back and undo damage done. Don't let anyone slip away, and never push them away. No matter how self fixated and independent you may be, you will always need someone by your side. If you didn't need them you'd be on a planet by yourself. So everyone suck it up, relationships aren't about you and your way and your needs, they are about both sides needs. If that means you have to make sacrifices along the way do it without hesitation. If you have a good relationship nothing is worth losing it over. If you have someone close to you, do everything in your power to keep it that way. Don't be one of those people who have to lose what they had to realize they should have held on to it. You can't go back. You can't undo.
Goodbye and Farewell,
Rob
"She comes to me like an angel out of time
As I play the part of a saint on my knees
There are some things I'll live without
But I want you to know that I need you right now
Suffer my desire for you"
---In the Arms of Sleep, Smashing Pumpkins
Almost all people care only about themselves,
They dont tend to consider what hurts or might hurt you
When you are in a serious relationship, things that matter to the other person, even if you think they are trivial, must matter to you.
One of the best lines ever from a movie, is:
"Little things, used to mean so much to Shelly. I used to think they were kind of trivial. . . believe me, nothing is trivial."
-Eric Draven, "The Crow"
It is from the movie The Crow, where Eric(The Crow) is speaking of his wife(Shelly). He is saying this after her murder. Its sad how people never realize what they have in people until its gone. They treat relationships with the value of a dime because they always take them for granted after the first few months. They get used to the person being there all the time and don't realize what they have, and in turn place such a low value on such a priceless thing. People seem to always have to ruin the relationship to realize what they had, and that they should have clung to every last string of it with all of their being. Material things are worthless. The only things that really matter are people close to you. No trivial anything is worth the demise of any relationship. You can never go back and undo damage done. Don't let anyone slip away, and never push them away. No matter how self fixated and independent you may be, you will always need someone by your side. If you didn't need them you'd be on a planet by yourself. So everyone suck it up, relationships aren't about you and your way and your needs, they are about both sides needs. If that means you have to make sacrifices along the way do it without hesitation. If you have a good relationship nothing is worth losing it over. If you have someone close to you, do everything in your power to keep it that way. Don't be one of those people who have to lose what they had to realize they should have held on to it. You can't go back. You can't undo.
Goodbye and Farewell,
Rob
"She comes to me like an angel out of time
As I play the part of a saint on my knees
There are some things I'll live without
But I want you to know that I need you right now
Suffer my desire for you"
---In the Arms of Sleep, Smashing Pumpkins