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[theconfoozedone]

well is this how its supposed to feel? i started dating someone last week... and she cheats on me infront of my face, treats me like im not really there when other people are around, and i have to do what she says.... i dont get it... when we are alone all she wants to do is kiss me and cuddle me and tell me how sweet i am to her but she cant

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[this_is_secret]

i look at it this way, if you're going to be commited, you can't let all of that same sex just for kicks shit happen or else you're going to be shafted. i don't think anyone can afford to look at something like kissing someone else and shrug it off just because two people are the same sex. if the girl cheats in front of you, treats you like shit and stuff, you need to have a talk, and if nothing changes, it's obviously not worth it. if someone can't treat you well around their friends or what not, that means that they obviously don't think much of you, and that they're image is most important. that is being shallow, and nobody wants to be with a shallow person.

and you know, i am much like that second girl myself, and i'm fucking stupid. all i know is that i need someone to get on my ass and tell me to do those things, but not yell at me, just help me to do them. someone to just be like, "alright, i'm going to go with you to go get a job, and i'll be there and sit there and read a book or something while you work on your diploma thing, just to make sure that you sit down and do it." i couldn't really tell you her motives though, but, hey, if she doesn't treat you like shit, it might just be a better situation to go for. anyway, i am just saying, don't put up with that shit, you're better than that, almost anyone is better than that, period.