Dec 10, 2005 10:45
we all manipulate and use people to some degree... its just what we do. its human nature. don't lie about it even to yourself, and if you are thats okay too... thats human nature.
we all have liked someone that we can get our way with. someone who is easy to get through their walls. who it doesnt take much effort to persuade. thats way good. feeling like you're the king of the world with that person.
thats not love.
love is when you find that person who is ewually as persuasive, equally as manipulative. someone who can manipulate you as much as you do them. someone who sometimes you even know you're being manipulated but you let them get away with it. someone as stubborn and not even as ready as you to admit that they're wrong. someone who it would be the absolutely easiest to completely hate at times. but you never do.
love is admitting you're wrong when you honestly think you're not. love is sacrifice. love is the fact that they're the only person that could convince you that they might have a point.
love is a beautiful war of wits and guilttrips. it sounds miserable eh?
love is the best thing that has ever happend to me.