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How do you save someone from themselves? When you know,in your heart, that they are their own destruction and downfall but you fear saying anything because you dont want to lose them as a friend? Then I ask myself, "How can I sit idly by and hope for the best for them when they dont even realize that they are dooming themselves?" I know I need to be stronger and more to the point but on the other hand, Im overwhelmed with this wave of "Oh things will work out". I guess what isnt hitting me is that things havent "worked out" for this person for some time. I have tried getting different views on things but they all come back to 'cut ____________ out of your life and let them swim on their own" to "You are ________ friend and you need to carry them through this rough time"...I dont know what to do. Any ideas?