It's been 35 days since my spouse and I split up and some how it's not any easier.I am hurt and confused. How am I suppose to have faith that we will be together again
well its kind of a long story and complicating. it's hard for me to even make sense of it. basically we both have previous baggage that we brought into the relationship. mine was an ex that physically, sexually, and mentally abused me for 9 years, and his want being emotionally distant from a dead beat dad and pressure for not being able to let people in 100% and being the father he wants to be to his son. through our relationship we had our bumps along the way. i had just gotten out of a horrible relationship and made some poor decisions while we were together. he stood by my side though. 36 days ago he decided that he wants to change and be that man that he has always wanted and the that father, and be able to let people in and committ. he decided that he had to do this alone and that was the only way. that we kept each other happy enough to not work on ourselves and that if we stayed in the relationship it would be a burden on him cause he would feel like he is not giving me what i deserve. but....he wants me to have faith that we
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Re: 36 days..nowmsbro0klynMay 10 2011, 18:27:39 UTC
this sounds like the exact fight my boyfriend and i had once [no offense] he said that he "wants to work on himself alone" and i said "why cant we work on ourselves AND be together?" it never made me sense to me and it still doesn't
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