I wanted to write an introduction, but I realized that there was no need, except to say that these were Richard's words from the Sunday Opening Panel of Phoenix Con. Thank you Richard.
“Today we are going to do a Rules and Regulations, but today we are going to do a variance on it. This is not the Rules and Regulations we normally do. I’m going off script here. And I thought this was worth mentioning.
Here’s the Rule.
This is the only Rule.
The Rule and Regulation that you learn here, that you take out of this room, is Acceptance, is Kindness, is Understanding.
We are not different, you and I.
You and Jared, you and Jensen. We just simply have a different job. And that is what this is all about.
We all know there was a tragedy in Florida last night. And we would be remiss if we did not comment on it, and acknowledge it, and mourn with the nation about what is currently going on.
I’m not going to comment on why. We don’t know the why. I’m not going to comment on the how, we don’t know that either.
But what I do know is that those acts of violence are driven by a loss of sense of self. A loss of sense of acceptance, a loss of sense of kindness, and as a people it is our job to fix that, by paying it forward, by doing the right thing to each other, all the time, every day, every time.
And I don’t care if you are a stranger or a family member. You have to do it the right way every time.
So this is the Rule.
You are going to take the acceptance that you find in the Supernatural Family, and you are going to push it out into other avenues of your life.
You are going to be nicer than you think you should be.
You are going to be kinder than you have to be.
You are going to be better than anyone thinks you can be because we know you can.
We know about you.
And that’s how we are going to solve this problem.
We can legislate until we’re blue in the face. But if we can’t fix humanity, you can’t make humans choose do the right thing. Let’s do it, starting here in your heart and we’ll push it out there. It may sound cheesy, but it’s the right answer.
So that’s what we’re going to do, and it starts with the Supernatural Family. And it goes to the internet, and it goes to the other pages we go to, and it goes to Pinterest and it goes to Instagram, and it goes to twitter; you are not going to be angry, you are not going to be bitching, you are not going to complain, everything you post on social media will be friendly.
If you don’t have something nice to say - put the phone down.
We are going to be nice to each other. We are going to be kind, we are going to be supportive, and it doesn’t matter who you are, what you do, who you marry, who you love, what you job is, what your problems are or what your gifts are.
We are all the same.
And until we realize that, we will never, ever, ever fully be able to heal. And I say the Supernatural family is the exact institution that can start the healing process.
So that is the Rule. And that is the Regulation. And that is what we are going to do.
Thank you."
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