Feb 01, 2005 00:35
was in Novi attending one of the few leathery events i try to attend anymore. I viewed it as a social event, a good chance to say hello to people i otherwise would not be able to see otherwise.
But from the people who brought you "whose fish are you eating boy"...
A person said to me in the company of others.
"hey goody, we are going to kidnap you later"
I said "ok", not really knowing where it came from having not sent out any vibes at all. And then my smart mouth decided that well enough was not worth leaving alone.
"but you know... since you have told me you're going to kidnap me, its not really kidnapping..."
"its more of a date"
And people start to laugh.
And then it occured to me that I have just smart mouthed myself out of some play.
In truth it did not really bother me that I might have turned off the offer, but it made me laugh, a good enough reason not to take outselves and our kink too seriously. I mean I did not even pack any duct tape for the weekend. So I obviously was not looking for any play.