Thinking About Him
My best friend's voice keeps ringing in my mind "if you continue thinking about him you'll drive yourself crazy, he's gone now move on" it's scary that these were her exact words. the truth is it's kinda hard mainly because you go from talking to someone every day of your life to them just gone, it's like they vanished off the face of the planet. OK if they go to your school or are in the same class then you don't have this problem but the long distance friendship type relationships you know what I'm saying. The problem with my situation is me and this guy were never dating, we were just friends. He told me he liked me and I found out that he had a girlfriend months later. It was a devasting day and I will probably never speak to him again. i am very mad and upset with him, I have imagined bumpping into him probably a thousand times and telling him off. I deleted everything when it was over, his facebook, his myspace, his cell number and pictures. His last message was YOU'LL REMEMBER ME I HAVE NO DOUBT AND THEN YOU'LL LOOK BACK AND BE ALL WOW HE WAS RIGHT!!! ok the truth is if I could forget him I would.
Every high schooler goes through this, guys and girls, you meet someone who you think is special and will never leave. My best friend has gone through this process many times and it always ends the same way. I would like to say now that she has a boyfriend who she's been with for almost two years and their happy . I never understood her though and when she would mourn the guy leaving not weeks...BUT MONTHS!!! I would roll my eyes and think "get over it already." Now when this happens I let her mourn all she wants because I'm mourning too, over something that never was, i am the crazy one now. But the thing is it's not easy as I was saying. when something good or bad happens you wanna tell that person right away, like when your dogs dies, you seen a good movie, you bought a new pair of uggs boots. IDK when something happens, ok now I can see why the guy left because my life is boring and predictable.
Now that have expiernced the process of letting go I can explain it. The first thing is getting mad, everyone gets mad. Let it out and scream, punch,kick a pillow. (it helps i swear). Next delete everything that will tempt you to talk to that someone (text message feed, facebook, myspace, twitter), with this stuff gone you will hopefully resist the urge to talk! Lastly the photos and little reminds, I'm not saying burn them but if their on your phone DELETE THEM and if their not boxes are a great thing. Pull a Gilmore and fill your box and place it in closet, see what happens eventually you will face the good memories or throw it all away....after like 15 years then you can burn it, have a bonfire for all i care but not first thing aftet the breakup.
Right now what comes to mind is Demi Lovato and they think a cause of her being in rehab is Joe Jonas and her breaking up. I can't help but agree a little, i would be hurt if my ex was flaunting around his new girlfriend. It just proves that hanging on doesn't help at all, for Demi i don't blame her for getting upset and lashing out, any teen probably would if they broke up and were with their ex 24/7 and their ex's girlfriend. I hope Demi gets the time she needs to mourn and get better (i am not saying it's joe's jault and that that's the cause I'm just saying if it is I hope things get better for her). We all need time to mourn and let go my question is
WHY IS IT SO HARD TO STOP THINNING???
Every high schooler goes through this, guys and girls, you meet someone who you think is special and will never leave. My best friend has gone through this process many times and it always ends the same way. I would like to say now that she has a boyfriend who she's been with for almost two years and their happy . I never understood her though and when she would mourn the guy leaving not weeks...BUT MONTHS!!! I would roll my eyes and think "get over it already." Now when this happens I let her mourn all she wants because I'm mourning too, over something that never was, i am the crazy one now. But the thing is it's not easy as I was saying. when something good or bad happens you wanna tell that person right away, like when your dogs dies, you seen a good movie, you bought a new pair of uggs boots. IDK when something happens, ok now I can see why the guy left because my life is boring and predictable.
Now that have expiernced the process of letting go I can explain it. The first thing is getting mad, everyone gets mad. Let it out and scream, punch,kick a pillow. (it helps i swear). Next delete everything that will tempt you to talk to that someone (text message feed, facebook, myspace, twitter), with this stuff gone you will hopefully resist the urge to talk! Lastly the photos and little reminds, I'm not saying burn them but if their on your phone DELETE THEM and if their not boxes are a great thing. Pull a Gilmore and fill your box and place it in closet, see what happens eventually you will face the good memories or throw it all away....after like 15 years then you can burn it, have a bonfire for all i care but not first thing aftet the breakup.
Right now what comes to mind is Demi Lovato and they think a cause of her being in rehab is Joe Jonas and her breaking up. I can't help but agree a little, i would be hurt if my ex was flaunting around his new girlfriend. It just proves that hanging on doesn't help at all, for Demi i don't blame her for getting upset and lashing out, any teen probably would if they broke up and were with their ex 24/7 and their ex's girlfriend. I hope Demi gets the time she needs to mourn and get better (i am not saying it's joe's jault and that that's the cause I'm just saying if it is I hope things get better for her). We all need time to mourn and let go my question is
WHY IS IT SO HARD TO STOP THINNING???