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What are your middle names?
Diane and John
How long have you been together?
Two years FOUR months, wuuuut.
How long did you know each other before you started dating?
Not that long? Maybe a year tops?
Who asked whom out?
Uhhhmn, he sort of did, but I sort of did. I called him after Ryan and I broke up, but he asked me to hang out with him. Mutual attraction.
How old are each of you?
23 and 23... though I'm almost 24.... sigh.
Whose siblings do you see the most?
It's probably about pretty even. As a couple I believe we've seen Melanie more, but Chris was here in LA for a bit so...
Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
Job schedules. And he's had a hard time figuring out what he wants-- the stress of leaving college, figuring out what we're doing, moving to a new city. Big events that were hard to get through.
Did you go to the same school?
Yeah, college. Same degree too.
Are you from the same home town?
Noooo. I'm from Colorado Springs, he's from Seminole, Florida.
Who is smarter?
We're both smart. I think I used to be smarter, but my brain has broken over time. ;) He's extremely, extremely smart. He'd never admit it, but he just has a way of picking things up, like I always did, except intensified.
But I'm much better with the written word than he is.
Who is the most sensitive?
We both are sensitive in different ways. I'm more sensitive in general, I take things the wrong way more, but he's got some pretty strong sensitivities-- and since I rarely know when they are, I think they bother him more. But I do hurt his feelings sometimes with my callousness. I don't mean to!
Where do you eat out most as a couple?
Stuft Pizza probably? Hahahah. >D
Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
We went to Florida together (though in separate planes) from LA.
Who has the craziest exes?
Me, he doesn't have any.
Who has the worst temper?
Me, but his instantly shuts me up when it's lifted. Again with the sensitivity. Mine is more immediate, but I think his is much more drastic.
Who does the cooking?
ME!!!!!!!
Who is the neat-freak?
Neither of us are... but we try to be clean enough. It depends too cause I usually get really anal about dishes but he gets anal about things like cleaning the counter, haha.
Who is more stubborn?
Him. But I come close.
Who hogs the bed?
My cat, Tseng. Jesus. But probably me, Jeff gets claustraphobic in bed and I'm a cuddle bunny, so in trying to cuddle while I sleep (= heatsource, mm) I tend to push him to the side. There's a lot of bed free, it's not like I'm taking it all up, but...
Then Tseng comes and takes up THE ENTIRE BED.
Who wakes up earlier?
Me. His favourite thing is to sleep.
Where was your first date?
Basing it on our anniversary it was this party on New Years of his friend's. Our second date, which was more clearly a date, was to Mellow Mushroom. Then we watched South Park at my house and we kissed. It was awesome.
Who is more jealous?
Me. It's not that I think he'll do anything, but I'm afraid of what other people will do. But he gets jealous too, and it takes him FOREVER to admit it. He's more passive aggressive with his jealousy, and I'm more straightforward.
How long did it take to get serious?
I don't know if it's even serious now. It depends. I'm very serious about it, and he KNOWS how much I love him, and he's very serious about me-- but we're still at the point where he refuses to live with me or anything above just exclusively seeing one another "seriously". But it took like five or six months to get the nerve up to the "I love you stage", and it took two years to get to the point where we can talk at all about anything long term without him acting squeemish (he still is a bit)
Who eats more?
Depends! But probably him in the long run.
Who does the laundry?
We do separate laundry, though sometimes we'll mix stuff in.
Who’s better with the computer?
Me with the setting it up and fixing it parts, hes better with programming and scripting.
Who drives when you are together?
We trade off. Neither of us like driving (in LA). He probably drives more, but I drive a good deal too. Lately neither of us drive together anywhere much.