I was going to post this on my myspace....
But I didn't want to scare away a person I just met! You know the whole no drama, no baggage, no crap.
But this has been the conversation between me and the "happy couple".
myspace.com/fuckingwaynewaynewayne
Date:
Mar 20, 2008 1:58 PM
Subject:
This is Misty, not Wayne...
Body:
Patricia,
Wayne and I have decided that we have absolutely no fucking use for the internet now that we have each other again, so I've deleted my myspace and he'll be deleting his as soon as I send this message.
We really need to know about the divorce. We've been here in Georgia for the entire week spending time with our family and we'll be here until Monday. If you're not going to start the proceedings/pay for the divorce we need to know now before we leave Georgia on Monday. Ken and Tammy offered to pay if you are not willing or able. Wayne and I want to get things settled so that we can start planning our wedding for next Spring.
Here is where you can contact me, as soon as possible, please:
misty_skaggs@yahoo. com
Have a nice day and please get in touch with me,
Misty
Misty,
I got your message, and I can say that I personally cannot afford to do anything yet. If Ken and Tammy are willing to send the cash for me to go and file the papers then go ahead and have them do so. It cost $180.00 to file, I have to do it in the county that we lived in... so they will have to send the money to me. It then takes 90 days for the dissolution to go through and then it is going to cost some more for the finalization. I am not sure of that amount yet. I hope you weren't really planning to be married by spring, because well... it takes at least 90 days just for the filing. Sorry to hinder your plans of a glorious marriage... ( i am sorry if i sound bitter, i just find it ridiculous that you would plan to marry him already.)
I honestly hope you can get him to actually get a job, because he hasn't worked in 7 years.
Good Luck. If they are going to send that money have them do it soon... if they can mail it tomorrow, or saturday, it may get here in time for me to do everything tuesday on my day off.
Trish
Patricia...
I have already been in contact with our family lawyer in Kentucky and I know for a fact that the divorce papers do NOT have to be filed in Indiana. You were obviously misinformed. We will NOT be sending you any money. In fact, we will file the paper work ourselves and I'll send you a brief e-mail to let you know when it's in the mail.
We realize that the finalization will take some time and that's why we are planning a real wedding NEXT spring, as in 2009. You can sound bitter all you like, because frankly, I don't care. I have known and loved Wayne Herndon since we started talking when I was only nineteen years old. I know him. He knows me. We know love with each other for the first time in our lives. My family is his family and his family is mine and all of us are excited to make plans for a future together.
As far as Wayne and work, you can mind your own damn business. Money doesn't mean the world to me. I don't care about Coach purses and manicures. I care about the sweet, intelligent, handsome man at my side. Maybe the reason he didn't work for seven years was because of his surroundings, his marriage, and frankly...you. You know I've tried to keep things polite between you and I, but I don't want to hear another negative word about my man. In fact, I don't want to hear another word from you at all. You can just sign the papers and send them back and the three of us can pretend that it never happened.
Not that it is ANY of your business, but Wayne already has a good job waiting for him at Morehead State University after we get back from Spring Break. He'll be archiving for the history department and he'll also be starting school in the fall.
Try and enjoy your own life,
Misty Skaggs
#1. Don't call me Patricia, You don't fucking know me.
#2. Your Lawyer must be a fucking idiot....
Step 1:
Find a lawyer. Even if you and your soon to be ex-spouse agree to the divorce and the division of assets, it is still a legal process and it is good to consult with a family lawyer at least once during the process.
Step 2:
Verify with whom the petition you need to file for divorce should be filed within the "circuit" or "superior" court in your county or district. This can be done by calling your local court house and asking. In some states you will be connected to family court and in other states the clerk can provide you with the info.
Step 3:
Decide if you are going to be filing for a no-fault divorce, often referred to as "irreconcilable differences," or if you are going to file for a grounds divorce, which implies one person is responsible for the failure of the marriage.
Step 4:
Choose which person is going to file the initial petition. For some couples this makes no difference and in other couples one person is seeking the divorce. It does not matter who files this paper work, but someone must.
Step 5:
File papers for temporary custody and support at the same time if you have children with your soon to be ex-spouse. You do not want your divorce to have a negative effect on the kids.
Step 6:
Have proof, called the service of process, to show that a copy of the divorce papers were served to your spouse or his/her lawyer. It is best to have the papers served in a dignified manner, such as in the evening or to the lawyer's office. Do not have the papers served to your spouse at work.
#3. I don't give two shits about money, and if you knew me, you would fucking know that.I went without so many things just because I wanted to provide for "your man".
#4. Don't think that I am for one minute going to make this easy... you say you all love each other... that is fucking wonderful. I don't fucking care. I hope that in 7 years he has done the same things to you that he did to me.
#5. I have any and every right to say anything I want to about "your" man, seeing how I am still Married to him. He didn't have a job because it was fucking convenient to never get his license, to never have to drive anywhere so he could use his anxiety and bullshit to not ever have a job. I fucking supported him for the most part of our marriage. Don't for one second think that I didn't fucking try to get our own place, numerous times I went and looked at apartments and houses so we could move closer to places for him to work. You don't fucking know everything, and you sure as hell cannot fucking tell me what I can and cannot say.
#5. If he is going to start school you better make sure he gets that GED he promised that he would get 10 years ago, that kinda goes along with the driving shit.
#6. And it is funny how you don't think you need the Internet now that you have one another finally... what the fuck ever. He will last about 4 months without it. Then he is going to want it back. But I can imagine the thoughts that are going through your head... Hmmmm I wonder if he will do what he did to her to me.
Good fucking luck.
Don't fucking worry this will be the last time that you get any mail from me. You saying you were being polite.. fuck that. I am the one that was being polite. Don't ever fucking try to give advice to someone that you just fucking stole from, and fucked with. I fucking hate the both of you from the depths of my heart. I am glad that I got to learn a life lesson from a fucking money sucking asshole, thank the fucking gods we didn't have any children.
And fuck you... Trust me I am enjoying my life more than you will ever know. I actually have a life now. I am allowed to hang out with MY friends, and surprise surprise guys that have jobs, that drive, and actually have goals in life.
Good fucking riddance,
Tricia.
So that is it for now, I am sure I will have a new one in the morning.
P.s. Kara, thanks for the introduction. I hope it goes well, I really do like him, so far...
But this has been the conversation between me and the "happy couple".
myspace.com/fuckingwaynewaynewayne
Date:
Mar 20, 2008 1:58 PM
Subject:
This is Misty, not Wayne...
Body:
Patricia,
Wayne and I have decided that we have absolutely no fucking use for the internet now that we have each other again, so I've deleted my myspace and he'll be deleting his as soon as I send this message.
We really need to know about the divorce. We've been here in Georgia for the entire week spending time with our family and we'll be here until Monday. If you're not going to start the proceedings/pay for the divorce we need to know now before we leave Georgia on Monday. Ken and Tammy offered to pay if you are not willing or able. Wayne and I want to get things settled so that we can start planning our wedding for next Spring.
Here is where you can contact me, as soon as possible, please:
misty_skaggs@yahoo. com
Have a nice day and please get in touch with me,
Misty
Misty,
I got your message, and I can say that I personally cannot afford to do anything yet. If Ken and Tammy are willing to send the cash for me to go and file the papers then go ahead and have them do so. It cost $180.00 to file, I have to do it in the county that we lived in... so they will have to send the money to me. It then takes 90 days for the dissolution to go through and then it is going to cost some more for the finalization. I am not sure of that amount yet. I hope you weren't really planning to be married by spring, because well... it takes at least 90 days just for the filing. Sorry to hinder your plans of a glorious marriage... ( i am sorry if i sound bitter, i just find it ridiculous that you would plan to marry him already.)
I honestly hope you can get him to actually get a job, because he hasn't worked in 7 years.
Good Luck. If they are going to send that money have them do it soon... if they can mail it tomorrow, or saturday, it may get here in time for me to do everything tuesday on my day off.
Trish
Patricia...
I have already been in contact with our family lawyer in Kentucky and I know for a fact that the divorce papers do NOT have to be filed in Indiana. You were obviously misinformed. We will NOT be sending you any money. In fact, we will file the paper work ourselves and I'll send you a brief e-mail to let you know when it's in the mail.
We realize that the finalization will take some time and that's why we are planning a real wedding NEXT spring, as in 2009. You can sound bitter all you like, because frankly, I don't care. I have known and loved Wayne Herndon since we started talking when I was only nineteen years old. I know him. He knows me. We know love with each other for the first time in our lives. My family is his family and his family is mine and all of us are excited to make plans for a future together.
As far as Wayne and work, you can mind your own damn business. Money doesn't mean the world to me. I don't care about Coach purses and manicures. I care about the sweet, intelligent, handsome man at my side. Maybe the reason he didn't work for seven years was because of his surroundings, his marriage, and frankly...you. You know I've tried to keep things polite between you and I, but I don't want to hear another negative word about my man. In fact, I don't want to hear another word from you at all. You can just sign the papers and send them back and the three of us can pretend that it never happened.
Not that it is ANY of your business, but Wayne already has a good job waiting for him at Morehead State University after we get back from Spring Break. He'll be archiving for the history department and he'll also be starting school in the fall.
Try and enjoy your own life,
Misty Skaggs
#1. Don't call me Patricia, You don't fucking know me.
#2. Your Lawyer must be a fucking idiot....
Step 1:
Find a lawyer. Even if you and your soon to be ex-spouse agree to the divorce and the division of assets, it is still a legal process and it is good to consult with a family lawyer at least once during the process.
Step 2:
Verify with whom the petition you need to file for divorce should be filed within the "circuit" or "superior" court in your county or district. This can be done by calling your local court house and asking. In some states you will be connected to family court and in other states the clerk can provide you with the info.
Step 3:
Decide if you are going to be filing for a no-fault divorce, often referred to as "irreconcilable differences," or if you are going to file for a grounds divorce, which implies one person is responsible for the failure of the marriage.
Step 4:
Choose which person is going to file the initial petition. For some couples this makes no difference and in other couples one person is seeking the divorce. It does not matter who files this paper work, but someone must.
Step 5:
File papers for temporary custody and support at the same time if you have children with your soon to be ex-spouse. You do not want your divorce to have a negative effect on the kids.
Step 6:
Have proof, called the service of process, to show that a copy of the divorce papers were served to your spouse or his/her lawyer. It is best to have the papers served in a dignified manner, such as in the evening or to the lawyer's office. Do not have the papers served to your spouse at work.
#3. I don't give two shits about money, and if you knew me, you would fucking know that.I went without so many things just because I wanted to provide for "your man".
#4. Don't think that I am for one minute going to make this easy... you say you all love each other... that is fucking wonderful. I don't fucking care. I hope that in 7 years he has done the same things to you that he did to me.
#5. I have any and every right to say anything I want to about "your" man, seeing how I am still Married to him. He didn't have a job because it was fucking convenient to never get his license, to never have to drive anywhere so he could use his anxiety and bullshit to not ever have a job. I fucking supported him for the most part of our marriage. Don't for one second think that I didn't fucking try to get our own place, numerous times I went and looked at apartments and houses so we could move closer to places for him to work. You don't fucking know everything, and you sure as hell cannot fucking tell me what I can and cannot say.
#5. If he is going to start school you better make sure he gets that GED he promised that he would get 10 years ago, that kinda goes along with the driving shit.
#6. And it is funny how you don't think you need the Internet now that you have one another finally... what the fuck ever. He will last about 4 months without it. Then he is going to want it back. But I can imagine the thoughts that are going through your head... Hmmmm I wonder if he will do what he did to her to me.
Good fucking luck.
Don't fucking worry this will be the last time that you get any mail from me. You saying you were being polite.. fuck that. I am the one that was being polite. Don't ever fucking try to give advice to someone that you just fucking stole from, and fucked with. I fucking hate the both of you from the depths of my heart. I am glad that I got to learn a life lesson from a fucking money sucking asshole, thank the fucking gods we didn't have any children.
And fuck you... Trust me I am enjoying my life more than you will ever know. I actually have a life now. I am allowed to hang out with MY friends, and surprise surprise guys that have jobs, that drive, and actually have goals in life.
Good fucking riddance,
Tricia.
So that is it for now, I am sure I will have a new one in the morning.
P.s. Kara, thanks for the introduction. I hope it goes well, I really do like him, so far...