Dec 02, 2007 04:57
There is really no reason for anyone to be unhappy. Happiness is one of the rare things that you, and only you, can control. The only person that can make you the happiest is you. As selfish is may be, if you cannot make yourself happy before anyone else, how can you expect anyone to make you happy. If you cannot find happiness yourself, how do you know what being happy really is?
One of the things that hurts me the most, is seeing a friend-- anyone-- truly unhappy. You can see it in their face. You can feel it from their energy. It really hurts. I see it too, too much.
Please, take just a second every day, and evaluate how you feel. Take a second to do whatever feels good. As long as you are doing what feels good, you are going to be happy. If someone doesn't approve, fuck them. This world is full of people, and the beauty of it all, is that everyone is different. Based on odds alone, there is at least someone who loves what you do. Instead of being unhappy for the rest of your life, make it a goal to seek out that person. Learn from them, as they will learn from you.
Ughh... it is so hard to vocalize to unhappy people how easy it is to let everything go, and to just be comfortable in one's own skin.
..... I don't know how to end this... so just be happy! :) :) :)