The Sex....

[the_ninth_bow]

I'm super duper curious about this...

Poll Dean and Cas Sexy Times Poll... Yay sexy times!! \o/

I'm really curious about this, to see what's most popular out there.

And to indulge in my fun/spastic mood of the moment, and my desire to avoid work through fic writing, if someone wants to take a guess at what my preference is and they get it right, I'll write said person a little

Comments

[no_eight]

That's exactly it! lol, I always have to complicate things for myself I have no idea why. That's funny because that's what makes me weary of a lot of fics with Dean bottoming. I've noticed that whichever your preference there's going to be a good amount of fic that has Dean or Cas as a submissive and I simply can't see it that way of either of them. Woobie!Dean is just as much of a turn off for me as woobie!Cas, and maybe it's because I can usually tell if it's going to be one of those fics with bottom!Cas just by a glance (I must have radar or something)that I don't find it as often while that's almost all I fall into in bottom!Dean fics. Having either of them a submissive thing that needs taking care of and the other who's completely in control just feels very out-of-character for me. They both have that strong undercurrent of vulnerability when it comes to each other and having one more dominant than the other simply doesn't feel like an accurate portrayal of their relationship.

And now I'm rambling I should stop xD

:flail: I can't wait to read it when it's done! ♥

[the_ninth_bow]

Lol, woobie!Dean... Yeah, Dean being all submissive is something I don't like to see, and it's definitely easy to fall into writing woobie!Dean when writing bottom!Dean because if you write it with Cas being the dominant top, then obviously the warrior/"I raised you from Hell, I can throw you back in"!Cas is so easy to fall into if you're not careful. That's probably why bottom!Cas is a little safer than bottom!Dean (because Dean doesn't have that super strength/otherworldly power behind him). And you're completely right... they do have that vulnerability with each other, but based on who they are and how they are with each other, I don't see one taking advantage of the other's vulnerabilities. It's totally about give and take, equality, than making one of the pair submissive.

Lol, rambling's totally cool in my book :P I do it too often myself.

Yay! :D I plan to be done with it by the end of the weekend, so I'll post it as soon as it's done :)