The things that weirdly make a difference.
"Buffy the Vampire Slayer" and "Sundome" manga, along with chipping a tooth and "forcing" a guy to turn on his "friends", a crying girl that I had never met before and hammering a nail in with my bare hand; a lot of the biggest changes in my life come from the strangest things and have results that very often don't seem to fit the basic experience very directly.