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My mommy is mad at me :( :( :(
She was asking me about my flight tomorrow, and I'm sitting here trying to wake up and for years and years she's been okay when I've said, hey mom, it's too early, give me some time to wake up and we can talk about it. But then, this time, when I said that as she's pestering me for details about whats the deal with assigned seats, how much does checked baggage cost, and I tell her it's too early, she says "I never get to talk to you anymore!" and storms out the door to work.
And like, while I understand that I could have been nicer, it's never been a problem before.
I think she's upset because both of us are growing up. There are things we don't tell her anymore, and I don't feel I should have to tell her everything about my love life, my school life, my gym life. Some things I want to keep to myself, and not feel pressured to tell my mommy about, and she doesn't get that. I'm not going to tell her about my trip to Vegas and how drunk I was all the time, I'm not going to tell her about the parties I'm going to or the guys I'm seeing, at least not until it's serious. I'm an adult, and as such I shouldn't have to report back to my mom on every detail of my life, especially the ones that I feel are personal and private.
Am I just being a bitch here? I should be allowed to not tell my mom things, right?
She was asking me about my flight tomorrow, and I'm sitting here trying to wake up and for years and years she's been okay when I've said, hey mom, it's too early, give me some time to wake up and we can talk about it. But then, this time, when I said that as she's pestering me for details about whats the deal with assigned seats, how much does checked baggage cost, and I tell her it's too early, she says "I never get to talk to you anymore!" and storms out the door to work.
And like, while I understand that I could have been nicer, it's never been a problem before.
I think she's upset because both of us are growing up. There are things we don't tell her anymore, and I don't feel I should have to tell her everything about my love life, my school life, my gym life. Some things I want to keep to myself, and not feel pressured to tell my mommy about, and she doesn't get that. I'm not going to tell her about my trip to Vegas and how drunk I was all the time, I'm not going to tell her about the parties I'm going to or the guys I'm seeing, at least not until it's serious. I'm an adult, and as such I shouldn't have to report back to my mom on every detail of my life, especially the ones that I feel are personal and private.
Am I just being a bitch here? I should be allowed to not tell my mom things, right?