Well, long update.
First off, just for the hell of it:
My life is rated PG-13.
What is your life rated?
That's quite funny. XD
I think I've become addicted to those things *COUGH*
I just keep adding on....MEH!
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Ok so I didn't update yesterday. I meant to but didn't. I slept in until 11, so I got close to 12 hours of sleep. I felt fine afterward. That afternoon I went swimming with Sarah, Pat, and Sonya. Before we went swimming though, things were looking bad for Andrew AKA "Yoshi".
I haven't told you guys much about him, so I will now. I met Andrew through Pat, and he's a kid that's in grade 11 right now but won't graduate for another two years because he goes to school over the internet. Why, do you ask? Well, he's go an allergy to latex. Latex is in rubber, so life isn't that great for him. He's had this allergy all of his life. Andrew's nickname is Yoshi because he does an amazing impression of Yoshi, so I like calling him that. Sonya is Andrew gf and they've been dating for about 8 or 9 months, not sure the exact number.
Now, Andrew's mom is a fucking nutcase. Seriously, I've never seen a mom this fruity in my life. She's 10 times worse than Allanah's mom (NO OFFENSE INTENDED JEAL! *ducks from flying object*). Basically, ever since they started dating, she has HATED Sonya for no reason whatsoever. When they first met, she glared at her. Now, Sonya's a normal kid, she's not slutty or anything, not anywhere near it. I knew there was something fucking wrong with this woman before, but over these past few months everything's been revealed, and everything that Andrew didn't know as well.
It started off with the glares, then the nasty comments. His mom told him that Sonya was lower than him, and he shouldn't be associated with her. Then other things, like just walking by and telling them to get off eachother when they're just sitting on the couch watching TV. The longer he stayed with her, the more things escalated. Things just kept getting worse. His mom got him a dog, and this is what happened:
Mom: Hey Andrew, I got you a puppy.
Andrew: I don't want a dog.
Mom: But you'll love it! It's so soft and once he sits in your lap and licks you you'll fall in love with him!
Andrew: Yeah, like I'm gonna let it lick me after licking it's crotch.
Rob (Andrew's stepdad): Like Sonya doesn't already!
Sonya was in the room when this happened. It's disgusting. It makes my blood boil. Things haven't gotten worse these last two months. There hasn't been so much as a week go by that Andrew hasn't been grounded. This kid is 16. It's fucking hard to be grounded when you're that old. He got grounded for something, I think sneaking out of the house to see Sonya because his parents were keeping him separated, and then not even a week later they ground him again. Why? They told him that they were grounding him again until he turns back into the kid he once was before he met Sonya. Last week on Saturday he got so frustrated he said fuck it, wrote a long three page letter mainly about how they were treating Sonya, and took off and hung out with us for a day.
When he returned home, things went up another level. His parents have now told him if he dares to do that again, they'll throw him out. Yes, it's legal to be thrown out at 16 here. It sucks. Yesterday, he was really bad. He hadn't seen Sonya in a week. Now, those two are like Brian and I. They are soulmates. They're meant to be together, and I KNOW how painful it can be to be separated from eachother. I remember being away from Brian on two occasions for 4 day stretches and I almost went insane. The poor kid is in a lot of pain, and his parents don't care. He wanted to leave. Pat and Sarah didn't know what to say, and he wasn't listening to Sonya. So, it fell on my shoulders to talk sense into him. So, I did. I got him to take a reality check. If he leaves now, he has nowhere to go. So, I told him we'd work something out. Casey's moving out and into and apt. with her bf Brendon in August, and Andrew knows him well. I told him we could hook him up with the spare room as one option and get him to either go to Bayridge or Holy Cross. The second option is to live with Sonya and pay rent and stay at the same school.
Now, here's another thing about his mom. She's been lying to him for ages, and he's now realizing it. She told him he had some kind of a serious spinal thing, and he went to three different doctors and found out he didn't. When he asked her why she lied to him, she just walked off. Now, if that's true, maybe the latex allergy is made up as well. She claims it's deadly, but the worst thing that Sonya's seen him with is hives. Now, one theory is that it's just that he gets hives. Another, which I think may be true, is that because his mother has drilled it into his head since he was very young that he has this allergy that it's psychological. It's very possible that she's done that to him and anytime he see's something made of rubber that he reacts to it. I'm hoping I can convince him to go to an allergy specialist before school starts in September to figure out if it's true. If I'm right, he's gonna need some counseling I think to help him cope.
There's no way he can stay there for another two years. That woman is a lunatic. Ok, she just had a double mascetomy surgery that she actually didn't NEED, and last night she was smoking weed and drinking alcohol. Weed and alcohol don't mix, and since she's just had surgery she's on some kind of fucking medication. The only one that doesn't drink and do weed in that house is Andrew. He's living in a frightening environment. Hell, even his sister talks shit about Sonya. It's just horrific. He's got a good mind to sue his mother for mental anguish for all the lies and whatnot she has done to him.
I gave Sonya my webcam last night. Andrew has one for school, and he hasn't been able to see her in a week, so I told her to take it because she needs it more than me. I heard Andrew on the phone, and it broke my heart to hear his voice. He had completely broken down and had been crying. I've never heard him so bad before. Even thinknig about it now brings tears to my eyes. Sonya's gone into depressions because of his family, Andrew has broken down on more than one occasion because of them, and it makes me for angry. I just want to scream at them. They shouldn't be made to suffer like that, it's inhumane.
I really hope we can get him out of there by the end of summer. I'm gonna help out as much as I can. I don't want them in that situation any longer, I just would like to see them happy. I hope the webcam helps him out. At least he'll be able to see her with it, even if it's not them in the same room it helps, it really does.
Well, I'm gonna head off to bed now and just hope that those two are okay. Don't worry Andrew, we'll get you out of there, I swear on my life we will.
My life is rated PG-13.
What is your life rated?
That's quite funny. XD
I think I've become addicted to those things *COUGH*
I just keep adding on....MEH!
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Ok so I didn't update yesterday. I meant to but didn't. I slept in until 11, so I got close to 12 hours of sleep. I felt fine afterward. That afternoon I went swimming with Sarah, Pat, and Sonya. Before we went swimming though, things were looking bad for Andrew AKA "Yoshi".
I haven't told you guys much about him, so I will now. I met Andrew through Pat, and he's a kid that's in grade 11 right now but won't graduate for another two years because he goes to school over the internet. Why, do you ask? Well, he's go an allergy to latex. Latex is in rubber, so life isn't that great for him. He's had this allergy all of his life. Andrew's nickname is Yoshi because he does an amazing impression of Yoshi, so I like calling him that. Sonya is Andrew gf and they've been dating for about 8 or 9 months, not sure the exact number.
Now, Andrew's mom is a fucking nutcase. Seriously, I've never seen a mom this fruity in my life. She's 10 times worse than Allanah's mom (NO OFFENSE INTENDED JEAL! *ducks from flying object*). Basically, ever since they started dating, she has HATED Sonya for no reason whatsoever. When they first met, she glared at her. Now, Sonya's a normal kid, she's not slutty or anything, not anywhere near it. I knew there was something fucking wrong with this woman before, but over these past few months everything's been revealed, and everything that Andrew didn't know as well.
It started off with the glares, then the nasty comments. His mom told him that Sonya was lower than him, and he shouldn't be associated with her. Then other things, like just walking by and telling them to get off eachother when they're just sitting on the couch watching TV. The longer he stayed with her, the more things escalated. Things just kept getting worse. His mom got him a dog, and this is what happened:
Mom: Hey Andrew, I got you a puppy.
Andrew: I don't want a dog.
Mom: But you'll love it! It's so soft and once he sits in your lap and licks you you'll fall in love with him!
Andrew: Yeah, like I'm gonna let it lick me after licking it's crotch.
Rob (Andrew's stepdad): Like Sonya doesn't already!
Sonya was in the room when this happened. It's disgusting. It makes my blood boil. Things haven't gotten worse these last two months. There hasn't been so much as a week go by that Andrew hasn't been grounded. This kid is 16. It's fucking hard to be grounded when you're that old. He got grounded for something, I think sneaking out of the house to see Sonya because his parents were keeping him separated, and then not even a week later they ground him again. Why? They told him that they were grounding him again until he turns back into the kid he once was before he met Sonya. Last week on Saturday he got so frustrated he said fuck it, wrote a long three page letter mainly about how they were treating Sonya, and took off and hung out with us for a day.
When he returned home, things went up another level. His parents have now told him if he dares to do that again, they'll throw him out. Yes, it's legal to be thrown out at 16 here. It sucks. Yesterday, he was really bad. He hadn't seen Sonya in a week. Now, those two are like Brian and I. They are soulmates. They're meant to be together, and I KNOW how painful it can be to be separated from eachother. I remember being away from Brian on two occasions for 4 day stretches and I almost went insane. The poor kid is in a lot of pain, and his parents don't care. He wanted to leave. Pat and Sarah didn't know what to say, and he wasn't listening to Sonya. So, it fell on my shoulders to talk sense into him. So, I did. I got him to take a reality check. If he leaves now, he has nowhere to go. So, I told him we'd work something out. Casey's moving out and into and apt. with her bf Brendon in August, and Andrew knows him well. I told him we could hook him up with the spare room as one option and get him to either go to Bayridge or Holy Cross. The second option is to live with Sonya and pay rent and stay at the same school.
Now, here's another thing about his mom. She's been lying to him for ages, and he's now realizing it. She told him he had some kind of a serious spinal thing, and he went to three different doctors and found out he didn't. When he asked her why she lied to him, she just walked off. Now, if that's true, maybe the latex allergy is made up as well. She claims it's deadly, but the worst thing that Sonya's seen him with is hives. Now, one theory is that it's just that he gets hives. Another, which I think may be true, is that because his mother has drilled it into his head since he was very young that he has this allergy that it's psychological. It's very possible that she's done that to him and anytime he see's something made of rubber that he reacts to it. I'm hoping I can convince him to go to an allergy specialist before school starts in September to figure out if it's true. If I'm right, he's gonna need some counseling I think to help him cope.
There's no way he can stay there for another two years. That woman is a lunatic. Ok, she just had a double mascetomy surgery that she actually didn't NEED, and last night she was smoking weed and drinking alcohol. Weed and alcohol don't mix, and since she's just had surgery she's on some kind of fucking medication. The only one that doesn't drink and do weed in that house is Andrew. He's living in a frightening environment. Hell, even his sister talks shit about Sonya. It's just horrific. He's got a good mind to sue his mother for mental anguish for all the lies and whatnot she has done to him.
I gave Sonya my webcam last night. Andrew has one for school, and he hasn't been able to see her in a week, so I told her to take it because she needs it more than me. I heard Andrew on the phone, and it broke my heart to hear his voice. He had completely broken down and had been crying. I've never heard him so bad before. Even thinknig about it now brings tears to my eyes. Sonya's gone into depressions because of his family, Andrew has broken down on more than one occasion because of them, and it makes me for angry. I just want to scream at them. They shouldn't be made to suffer like that, it's inhumane.
I really hope we can get him out of there by the end of summer. I'm gonna help out as much as I can. I don't want them in that situation any longer, I just would like to see them happy. I hope the webcam helps him out. At least he'll be able to see her with it, even if it's not them in the same room it helps, it really does.
Well, I'm gonna head off to bed now and just hope that those two are okay. Don't worry Andrew, we'll get you out of there, I swear on my life we will.