A long rant about my love life. Oh joy...

[the_crestfallen]

Wow, I know I haven't posted in this thing in a while but I've been freakin' busy. But it's not like many people read this thing, anyway. Probably only two people actually do (Hi Jeff, hi Moira

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[the_crestfallen]

You have the best advice, Spaco and I appreciate your input on this. It's hard to say, but I'm not exactly sure just how deep I am in all of this. Can I just drop everything and run? That's hard because I have strong feelings for her. The whole love thing, y'know? I think I gotta wait things out just a little bit more... just to know where this is all going. But here's the scenario: I'm her 2nd true love and this other guy was her 1st. They were dating way back when they were young but the dude's family was really strict and wacky and they made him break it off. They made him have to either choose her or them. He chose his family. Now time has passed and he's more free (also back from the army or whatever) and he might be trying to get back with my girl. Sometime supposably next week they're hanging out and I'm not sure what's gonna happen... all I know is that I'm 100% out of this whole thing if he and her become something more than just friends or if they "fool around".

Anyway, I'll probably be posting more in this journal about my clusterfuck of a situation. Thanks again for the advice and take care, man.

[spaco]

Another problem is the whole bisexuality thing. I'm not a big fan of dating bisexual girls in general, as they tend to not know what they're doing in life at that stage(in my personal experience). If she's wanting to explore that side and she decides to settle with you now before doing so, it'll more than likely be in the back of her mind for awhile and could cause problems on down the road between you.

[the_crestfallen]

I totally wish she wasn't bi. I agree with you that they NEVER know what they want. (In fact, I wrote a entry way back in my 'Glames' journal ranting a little bit on bi-chicks and I somewhat said the same thing.) It's definitely something I'm keeping a heads up on.